by iden » Wed Jun 13, 2012 5:05 am
If he had a legal obligation at the time of the surgery to help with the expenses, then I would say yes, go ahead and take him to court (family court, though, not small claims).
But, as you were told, the child support was not retroactive, and only goes from Jan 2012 forward. So although you do have some (I'm assuming" extensive medical bills, he is not legally liable for them.
<aside> This does not mean I'm cheering for him because he got away with not paying more. In my mind, he's not even worth the stain left on the sheet from the conception.
*EDIT* - As for the medical bills, talk to the hospital about it, and see if they can reduce what you owe, and/or accept a manageable monthly payment. They may be willing to work with you, but you will have to ask for their help.