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[toryn34]

My father n law told my husband that he could only have the club seats to BUCS game if he promised he did not take his wife (me) After taking my dad a few times. That upset the dad. So he went to a bar and a girl from his bast who was just a friend but knew he had an inheritance and would spend 10K a weekend to party especially with Cocaine. She introduced him to her friend at this bar. He left alone at 3PM with no food in house or away to get around because I could not drive because of my eyes especially at night. He left at 3 PM... Did not come home till 4 AM in the morning the next day. Told me he went from bar to bar playing pool with guys at work... I believed him at the time but wondered why he did not call me or answer my calls to his cell phone.I found out.. that was not true. The girl who know him and introduced him to this girl who was a former stripper at a place he knew of when he lived in NY. He stayed the whole night with her a lone. Bought her coke. They drank alcohol, did pot and went to a special place he thought he could get good so called called good coke having her with him flashing boobs. They got it.I learned later that that same night he said he did nothing but drugs with her having aparty good time. cocaine, alcohol and pot. He only asked her to lift her shirt up because she was worried that her boobs were small so he said let me see gain. he did not tell me the answer he gave her. He came home a 4 am and told me that lie. A couple weeks later I found out that he asked her out on a date to the bucs game.He her use my BUCS jersey. took all m person stuff out of truck. He left the beer cans he truck with her hair bans she left a few hair bands. Told me he took a guy from work.I was doing a real estate auction... I called the place he worked and the guy he was to have taken picked up. He went from the game with her to the his place of work and they told him..... I confronted him. I spoke to her she told me he kept calling her all week to meet for more fun. And told everyone that was his girlfriend.I mentioned she said you wee doing coke with her... He played the greatest actor saying she was a liar. tell me Do really think he did not even fool around?_Doing alcohol, coke, pot?Be honest.... I have asked this question many times to many people some professionals. Please this driving me crazy he did finally admit kissing her with some tongue the following week when he took her to the bucs game this all happenned a while ago but he will not discuss and gets angry even with a therapist

[lazaro94]

My father n law told my husband that he could only have the club seats to BUCS game if he promised he did not take his wife (me) After taking my dad a few times. That upset the dad. So he went to a bar and a girl from his bast who was just a friend but knew he had an inheritance and would spend 10K a weekend to party especially with Cocaine. She introduced him to her friend at this bar. He left alone at 3PM with no food in house or away to get around because I could not drive because of my eyes especially at night. He left at 3 PM... Did not come home till 4 AM in the morning the next day. Told me he went from bar to bar playing pool with guys at work... I believed him at the time but wondered why he did not call me or answer my calls to his cell phone.I found out.. that was not true. The girl who know him and introduced him to this girl who was a former stripper at a place he knew of when he lived in NY. He stayed the whole night with her a lone. Bought her coke. They drank alcohol, did pot and went to a special place he thought he could get good so called called good coke having her with him flashing boobs. They got it.I learned later that that same night he said he did nothing but drugs with her having aparty good time. cocaine, alcohol and pot. He only asked her to lift her shirt up because she was worried that her boobs were small so he said let me see gain. he did not tell me the answer he gave her. He came home a 4 am and told me that lie. A couple weeks later I found out that he asked her out on a date to the bucs game.He her use my BUCS jersey. took all m person stuff out of truck. He left the beer cans he truck with her hair bans she left a few hair bands. Told me he took a guy from work.I was doing a real estate auction... I called the place he worked and the guy he was to have taken picked up. He went from the game with her to the his place of work and they told him..... I confronted him. I spoke to her she told me he kept calling her all week to meet for more fun. And told everyone that was his girlfriend.I mentioned she said you wee doing coke with her... He played the greatest actor saying she was a liar. tell me Do really think he did not even fool around?_Doing alcohol, coke, pot?Be honest.... I have asked this question many times to many people some professionals. Please this driving me crazy he did finally admit kissing her with some tongue the following week when he took her to the bucs game this all happenned a while ago but he will not discuss and gets angry even with a therapist

You know what the truth is. Why ask a bunch of strangers for validation? He's a doper, boozer, user. liar, skunk chaser. GTFO before you get STDs from this pooch.

[taillefer]

Cocaine...and alcohol is enough to get them fooling around. Your dumb to think nothing happened.

[gobrwy]

Are you serious? Yes, he most definitely had sex with her. You must be joking. Not to mention, he disrespected you by letting another woman wear your own clothes! That is obsurd. Not to be mean but your husband obviously thinks you are the most gullible person in the world to believe a story that he didn't have full on sex with this girl. Dirty, unprotected, drugged up, monkey sex. That's what they had. My gosh I have tried to pull some fast ones over on some girls but never thought that bunch of horse **** would work. I tend the think you don't want to believe it because he has money. Sad.

[melville]

Firstly - seek some help in a therapist or close friend to discuss this and your feelings.

Secondly - I would say your suspicions are on the mark. Your husband does not seem like the type of person who can be trusted and does not take into account your feelings/fears/concerns. I am sure if you look back at your relationship there will be times that you can find other instances of poor behavior and when you have questioned his answers.

It is easy for all to say get out of the relationship, ask yourself if you want to remain in it and do what is best for yourself.

[condan]

LEAVE HIM. He is lieing to you. Ive cheated on my ex boyfriend and ive used lies like that. Hes a grown *** married he does not need to be acting like a teenager.Have you ever heard the song 4 am by melonie fiona.. Every time i hear that song i say damn im too good for any guy or my husband to break my heart if i ever found out my husband was with another girl at the time of night he
Wont ever have to worry about being with me again at that time of night. He hurt you. You hurt him. Take his money take his pride. Take everything. Get an awesome lawyer and thn go around and talk to every lawyer within 50 miles. Any lawyer you talk to.. Will not be able to represent him. Plus why would you want to be with a man who has a family like that. You will be a freaking happy camper in the end.

[chepito]

I think yes

[trucker]

He banged her hard sweetie, but you already know that!. I say kick his but to curb and get you a real man, not a player

[leonie36]

Why would you even stay with a man like that?? Have yourself checked for STD's and find someone that will respect himself and you!

[werner72]

my real question is why were you with your husband at all? What made being with someone who spends 10k a week on drugs partying a good idea?

Outside of that, really who cares what he did with that girl? Does it matter? If he expects to live a party life, and you aren't going along with him, whether he did anything with this woman or not he'll do something with some woman eventually. Maybe some 18 year old stripper when he's 40.