Mixed Up

[iker]

I had an affair and a infant by one more man. I employed to be completely honest with my man from the beginning. Unsure for sure if he was the father he signed the birth certificate. Month-to-month soon after the delivery we had a DNA test and decided that my husband is not the father. Attempting to do what is proper for all involved the biological father were told by us. In the course of the time he was okay with the baby possessing my husband's name and only anticipated that he may possibly begin to see the infant. Because I will not let him start to see the child when he needs nowadays the biological father is becoming irritated. He's threatened to get a lawyer and make me modify the baby's last name and to obtain visitation rights. Simply me my husband and the biological dad know, we've no require to place added stress on our marriage by displaying our men and women. The biological father is not a legal resident of the United States, my question, is can he truly get me to court and make me change the children name and does he whilst the biological father have the precise same privileges wether in the nation legally or not?

[xing]

Thanks, I really value the input on this. I am really trying to do things the right and easy way.

[renshaw79]

Then, does a DNA test to prove he is the father need to be done first or will the fact that I freely admitted to thim that he is the father hold up in court in terms of visitation rights?

[Beretun]

He can push it.
He can seek an order of paternity and visitation.
His status doesn't change his rights with regard to his child.

[Ahanu]

If you wish to combat the very fact of paternity, you may request a DNA test but because you've previously had one and realize that your spouse is not the daddy, what's your level? If he's the daddy, he's privileges and itis your decision to determine whether to complete it the hard way or the simple way. In either case, if he requires it to judge, his privileges is likely to be legally-recognized. The wise move to make would be to work it out, particularly if that you don't need it recognized. Courtroom documents are public record information...

[Proinsias]

"He's threatened to obtain a attorney and make me change the infant's last name and to obtain visitation rights."A courtroom probably will not change the little one's name. No law says children have to transport Daddy's last name.However, he MAY find his rights as being a guardian, including visitation."my issue, is can he truly consider me to judge"Yes."and make me alter the children title"No."and does he whilst the natural father have exactly the same rights wether in the united states legally or not?"Yes.