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by **condan** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 2:11 pm

My ex boyfriend is confusing me!

I broke it off with him 1 month ago. He was chasing me I kind off gave him the cold shoulders. He thought I have moved on. Until I broke down and told him missed him and lost weight. He thought the break up never effected me. He actually saw me with a tall guy as he drove by my area. I was trying to date new people to get over him but it did not work told him this too. He held me tightly said he missed me and that he thinks about me constantly. But he said he was confused when and might not wanted to see me next two days. I ignored it and tested him send text next day to ask to meet up as i wanted to give him a present as he gave me one when i was there. He ignored me for two days as he did mentioned he didn't wanted to see me. It caught me off guard when he rang and angry tone i said i didn't call him as he made it like i called him. He missed called me twice but was hurt by my tone i could tell and he mumbled and hanged up.

Next day asked for him to call me he was like what now? I said yes and it was past two hours no respond. I text saying am out and about let me know if your home as i need to drop something off mate(gift) he ignored me.

I went to his place to see what is up. I had a big bag as i wanted to head to gym after. He wasn't happy to see me like the first time i broke down. Could be that he was angry how i spoke to him on the phone perhaps? dont know. He said what are you doing here? I said I came to say HI and then said come in with thinking for like 2 sec. He asked whats that bag for? I never answered he then said what you came from one of your dates? I never answered. He then asked why do i keep coming over randomly. I never answered he then said my girlfriend is not going to like this. He stared at my eyes as if wanted a reaction. He then said i did not let any girls in when i was seeing you right. I said yes Anyways why did you ignore my text. He said he was busy and he then said what if I am with my girl? I said well you couldve said it and all i wanted to give was this. A photo of your fun moments he stared at them and i could tell he wanted to smile but held it back. He then snapped out of it and said it made more sense if you gave it to me back then instead of now. I said you gave me present recently too so? He then said give me your hands which i did but he was being cheeky he tried to pull it down stairs. I said NO I AM NOT A CHEATER and you need to behave. I said the time you ignored me i met someone. He was like mmmhh you met someone yeah nudging his head. I pulled back and got up he pulled me back held my hands held it tightly and said their cold. I then said need to go hope we can catch up one day. I said to him to give me a hug and whispered he should look after himself.

When I stood at the hall he shouted where you going? I never answer he said to your imaginary boyfriend! He shouted you got my number right call me or leave a not do not come randomly.

I was thinking if he really is serious about this new chick why say that i should call if i want to come and when we were a couple he never allowed no girls in?

Also our kids are in the same class last week i saw him at parent evening he was staring at me intensely in my eyes while i was walking down towards him as the class was there. What is up with that?

We havent spoken for a week now but i am confused with his words actions stares. I still love him but i will not chase him. Do you guys think he cares about me and if so why is he being rude the last i came over he wasnt like that the first time i came. It is as if he is angry with me.

You think there is hope for us to get back together? and how should i handle it the best way

I also feel ever since i broke down and confessed my feeling he kind of got some ego boost and taking the **** now. As he chased me before i confessed but shouldnt he be happy about it instead of taking the **** or he wants to hurt me back dont know

by **cadby** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 2:19 pm

Hey There!! From a womans point of view Guys r just Guys...and although they pick the worst things to do, say, and SHOW the fact still remains that they r SIMPLy men!! Its apparent that he wants you and I could believe he wants to be happy as well, but the issue is that he seems indecisive... he may be the type of man that wants to be adored and chased ( there are soo many diff types out there) But the question is do you want to go after him, games and all. My method has always been to allow the man to see the woman u really are.. he already knows if your worth having, so stay who u are, if u love him or care enough stay and fight for it..but he is gonna have to realize that your time and love is precious and u deserve all u want and more (especially if your giving that in return!) So just let the cards fall where they may, but remember its ur life and u deserve complete happiness, if he cant handle then let him go... One last thought... He could be the man who was put in your life to learn these lessons from, and weather good or bad these lessons will help u LOVE ur Mr. Right in ways u cant imagine! Good Luck Hon!!! :-)
Stay BeeUtiful

by **osmont** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 2:28 pm

Im happy for u! I no its not easy! But as strong women we do wat we have 2, so just no that there is some1 who is out there 4 u who will not only b n deep connection w/ u but also ur child! Dont go looking for him, because he's seaching so hard to find u, and once he does he will luv u 2 pieces! xox

by **werner72** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 2:34 pm

thanks for telling us your life story. Very interesting. Next time focus on just asking a question then telling everyone your life story. Makes it so much easier for the reader..

by **porter** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 2:36 pm

TOOOOOOO LONG TO READ!!!!!! MAKE IT SHORT AND TO THE POINT, OK???????

by **larenzo** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 2:38 pm

Nobody is gonna answer this... I fell asleep after the 1st line.... good luck thou, if all else fails, drip to your knees like every good girl should

by **nicolas** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 2:44 pm

I must admit after reading your first paragraph I completely lost interest. You haven't formulated your sentences very well and it is very difficult to work out what you are telling us. It's like you have had a case of verbal diarrhea and just let your fingers and brain go mad. Keep your questions succinct, pithy, to the point.

Just ask the guy if he wants to get back with you. Invite him to a restaurant first.

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