Cannot stand him, it's so sad?

by **broehain61** » Tue Dec 20, 2011 4:09 am

I cannot stand my 'new' brother in law, my sis and her husband have been married for 6 months now.

And I can say that I hate him, it's really sad. Because I don't hate anyone, I think 'hate' is a really strong word, and I hardly let myself get consumed by it, but I can say that in this case it is justified.
My sis and I are very close, we are like two peas in a pod, except i feel like so much has changed. I know that's inevitable because married life means change but she got married to an awful person who acts like a wisecrack all the time, he is really cocky and arrogant and cant take a joke. His like a rich boy who is really snobby and thinks his better than everyone, except his not even rich.

The thing is my parents spent £30,000 at her wedding and for what? We're broke as it is now, she spends all the time with his side of the family and getting to know them better, yet it's never reciprocated, he never wants to spend time with us and avoids us. When she comes over he picks her up and stays in the hse for abt 10 mins drinks tea and then leaves.

His family is a bunch of inbreds too, arrogance runs in their blood because they are all the same. And I don't know what to do, I spoke to my parents and they said they are helpless because If they say anything they will lose their daughter because she is in love with him and you can't say anything about him because she's sensitive about him.

It's to the point were we (my brothers too) avoid him like the plague when he comes to pick her up at our house. I hate him sooo much, we have been nothing bt nice too him and his been an *** from day 1

I blame my sis too bcos she's soo afraid and Intimidated and she thinks everything is fine and doesn't admit it, I lost soo much respect for her too.

What do I do? I wish they didn't get married, & I'm not being selfish bcos I act like nothing is wrong and try ignore it for my sis happiness but it's bothering me even when they're both over in my own home.

Sorry this Is long

by **winfrid12** » Tue Dec 20, 2011 4:13 am

I can understand how you feel, but at the end of the day your sister married this guy and its her choice. It sounds like she comes to see you without him which is a good thing - at least you dont have to put up with him in the house. Just try and be polite and enjoy seeing your sister when he's not around.

by **achimelech51** » Tue Dec 20, 2011 4:21 am

Sounds to me like you are jealous.

by **dureau** » Tue Dec 20, 2011 4:30 am

too much drama!

by **chepito** » Tue Dec 20, 2011 4:40 am

Confront him. He's family now, that's what families do. Tell him what's on your minds. He's gonna be around for at least 15 years you should clean out all this mud before it hardens.

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