Domestic violence adult guardianship abuse?

[burdett]

hi
im a woman in my late 20s and i dont suffer from any mental disability or serious mental illness and ive never had a head injury or trouble with decision making.

anyways but i am physically disabled now due to an injury after college and then a life threatening medical problem after that. im in terrible pain every day and am going for medical treatment but the doctors are not sure if ill be okay since they havent found a cure yet

anyways im forced to live for the last 4 years with my elderly father that is almost 70 years old,because he abused me growing up, neglected me (so did my mother) and has been severely controlling and bribed me since i was 18. hes very controlling to other family members too, that complain about him

he is not in his right mind, is a narcisist and a psychopath, because he can appear very normal and stable to the outside world and psycholoigists, psychiatrsits. but he has commited many domestic crimes against family members and children that didnt press charges or tell police. its been a family secret and no wants to tell police
so im alone to fight for my life because no witnesses in my family want to be on my side and talk
so my parents did terrible things to me, but now im an adult and i want to get a job if i can and rent my own apartment. marry, drive a car and so on like im supposed to do

but my controlling father decided he dosnt want me to have any life or future. he got angry that he lost control of my older sister once she got married so he became more of a mosnter and started terrorizing me and threatened to go to court to get revenge at me and he did
im physically disabled so i couldnt show up at court or do anything to defend myself so he won adult guardianship over me by default, when i was told by a few psychologists i saw that he is not able to do that because im not mentally disabled. but my father paid a big lawyer and lied and got his own set of doctors that i wasnt a patient of to lie about me and say im autistic and other reidculous things about me.

i think thats called perjury. but i cant focus on fighting a madman in court because im very sick with health problems that are getting worse due to me being forced to sit and rot in my parents house. im isolated,verybally abused here, my father dosnt allow me to get a job,earn money, go back to school or be independant. he gets angry if i have any friends.hes racist and didnt like the idea that an african american woman of my age was a friend of mine so he scared her away. and public embarrases me. im an adult i should be able to talk to whomever i chose, chinese, spanish,australian whatever.

he dosnt allow me to date either and im going to be 30 soon. he says i need to live in his house and rot and not do anything because he says im worthless and born with no potential and that im stupid

he wont allow me to marry, get a job. hes forcing me to live as a child and stopping me from learning to be a regular adult. i know im doomed because ive been calling agencies and about 100 different law offices and legal aid to help me and for years they keep saying no to me that they cant help me and too bad

ive tried doing the best i can, i wrote letters to the court, spoke to the court secretaries to the judge and i was reprimanded and talked down to by the judges secretary. she told me too bad (in other words go off and die)

the legal aid agency says they cant help me because all the 15 lawyers there that deal with guardianship are 2000 percent convinced im autistic, theres no chance they will help me. ive tried

im not autistic by the way, but thats what you get when you deal with free lawyers in the mental health legal aid, they dont really care or want to know you or if your in danger or not. low quality legal help
they spoke to my father and are on his side and they dont care that im phycially disabled

so unless 20 thousand dollars falls into my wallet tomorow theres no chance ill have any actual fair legal help. ive tried domestic violence agencies, tons of them. they dont help my rare situation because the case is a mental health case, so they think im some schitzo woman not worth helping

nobody wants to go near the allegdly mentally ill. so no ones listening to me

i tried adult protective services and they wanted to lock me away in a mental ward and medicate me (ill have no part in that, since its against my beliefs and religion)

so forget about them, i had to tell them i was okay because i was scared they would lock me away

so no ones helped me and im going to be a lost soul that didnt get to live the life god intended for them. and ive had a hard childhood, teen years. i went to college to make something of myself and better myself and my parents wont allow that

[max]

Call the police! That's the only way that you will be able to get anything right. get the tears going! Wait until he is not home then call the cops an explain everything you just wrote here. You need help! he has no right to do that to you! I'll ray for you ! God bless.

[sylvester37]

You can appeal the court decision, you can send a friend in your place if you are unable to attend hearings. Or you can have a friend help you leave the house. They can also appoint you legal aid to help you win your case. You can also have a friend, or yourself contact a domestic violence shelter, and they can help you leave your fathers home and get you care. You can also request you have a conference call for court hearings, where you are present via telephone or video chat.

Since you obviously have you head on straight, you don't need a gaurdian. You can manage your own life - you just need a care provider. Have your friend help you in finding some people willing to work with you on getting the gaurdianship dropped so you can get out of that house.