If someone is trying to destroy your looks & slandering you to people that U are ugly, aren't they jealous?

[ashly]

Tell me a little more about this so I can understand. Thank you.

[fychan97]

It could be. Maybe they feel threatened by you because you're very pretty. Or it could be they're hurt so are working at trying to hurt you back. When someone goes to a lot of trouble to hurt someone else, it's because they're hurting.

If this is coming from one of your friends, try to speak with them and find the source of the hurt. Sometimes all people want is an apology and it all goes away.

[trucker]

Yes, they are very jealous it has been this way for a very long time you see it everywhere. In my eyes everyone is beautiful. The pretty ones will always have problems getting friends because people think they are what you call competition. Sad ain't it:(

[karlitis]

Sad pathetic individuals in my opinion. Even if "i dont know" what it's like to be in their position and have a reason to do something such as that, I still think it's wrong.

That's why hot chicks usually hang out with other hot chicks, instead of for instance a plain jane hanging around a beautiful girl but i cannot say all are like this. As in ive had a few friends who weren't that great in the looks department and they were still "normal", the ones i suspect do this view you as some kind of competition that needs to eliminated so they can feel good again.

Would i truly care to slander someone if i found them ugly? NO. there's ton of ugly people in this world why would i care to do such a thing UNLESS i knew they were prettier or they were competition and I FEARED others thought that. ( that's my guess)

It's hard for me to understand because it's not something i can relate to or would want to do, even if i viewed the person as a major threat, i wouldnt probably do it. Maybe I had it easy , i didnt have much "competition" to worry about and the hot chicks i hung out with we all were equal with eachother so we didnt view eachother that way. You know birds of a feather type of deal, if youre a guy and this is happening its probably the same thing.

But i say its all jealousy in fact. And it has to do with them viewing you as a threat, a secret hatred for being the uglier one and is now getting "even" or trying to, or their own insecurity. I cant say its all looks cause ive had some unnatractive aqaintances who DIDNT do this, but ive also had some who did.