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Im in a difficult situation with him =\?

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Im in a difficult situation with him =\?

Postby bercnan72 » Tue Dec 20, 2011 10:28 pm

Hiye guys! x) So there is this really special guy in my class. Everytime we are talking it feels like there is no one else in the room. He always has me laughing and I can not stop smiling at him. Before this class I never really thought of him the way I think of him today. I even have a special nick name for him and he doesn't mind me calling him it at all. He really likes it and it's not really his style to like things like that. He is always helping me with our class work and he always goes into this big explanation when he doesn't really have to but I just love hearing him talk to me and giving me attention. Im always so interested in him and ask him so many questions about him and we could talk for hours. But the past two days he hasn't said a word to me like he usually does when I walk in to class. We had such a great day before that and I feel so sad inside because everything was perfect with him. And he seemed fine with his friends but when he saw me he changed. And I was wondering if I should give him this power ranger I bought for him because he has action moves like one and talks like one when he does his acting but I don't know if I should give it to him and if so what would I say and how would I say it since we haven't talked in a while. So if you guys could help me out it would be much appreciated =/
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Postby adaya » Tue Dec 20, 2011 10:32 pm

Hiye guys! x) So there is this really special guy in my class. Everytime we are talking it feels like there is no one else in the room. He always has me laughing and I can not stop smiling at him. Before this class I never really thought of him the way I think of him today. I even have a special nick name for him and he doesn't mind me calling him it at all. He really likes it and it's not really his style to like things like that. He is always helping me with our class work and he always goes into this big explanation when he doesn't really have to but I just love hearing him talk to me and giving me attention. Im always so interested in him and ask him so many questions about him and we could talk for hours. But the past two days he hasn't said a word to me like he usually does when I walk in to class. We had such a great day before that and I feel so sad inside because everything was perfect with him. And he seemed fine with his friends but when he saw me he changed. And I was wondering if I should give him this power ranger I bought for him because he has action moves like one and talks like one when he does his acting but I don't know if I should give it to him and if so what would I say and how would I say it since we haven't talked in a while. So if you guys could help me out it would be much appreciated =/
imo 1 of 2 things can be happening.

1) he just hasnt been in a great mood or maybe you creeped him out (unlikely). or he doesnt wanna lead you on (doubtful cuz he sounded interested).

2) hes doing it on purpose. Why? clearly its working since your dying inside to know whatsup and your prob always thinking of him and you prob want him even more. Its called playing hotncold. And right now hes playing cold. d.w. though, the hot part should come around soon. You can either wait it out or try talking to him. I dont suggest playing cold against cuz often times you can come off as a b*tch and the otherperson will think they lost interest.
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Postby chen12 » Tue Dec 20, 2011 10:42 pm

I had a crush on a guy on my class & all year we would talk flirt & stuff. whenever he saw me he would like automatically talk to me. play with my hair. one time his hand was on my waste for no reason. I really like him but never showed my feelings. when i tried to hang with him though, he was always busy. Around the end of the year I finally shared my feelings but the next day he was in a relationship with someone else. I waited too long. I would give him a power ranger thing & tell you're feelings to him. if have to right afterwords just walk away but get it off your chest & hopefully you're not late like how I was. just take the chance & the worst that could happen is a no. maybe hes acting weird because he doesnt think your into him.
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Postby favian » Tue Dec 20, 2011 10:43 pm

Alright, so. I would give him another day and see if he talks to u or not. If he doesn't, go ahead and talk to him first. Guys don't always have to be the ones to start a convo. Maybe he's scared to put out his feelings. Or maybe, this may be harsh, but moved on and deccided he doesn't wanna have feelings for u. Maybe he thinks that u r too good for him. Just try and make convos with him and ask if there is something wrong. Maybe there's something going on with his family. U will never know if u never tryh and figure out.
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Postby gideon » Tue Dec 20, 2011 10:46 pm

A gift could be a great opportunity to talk to him. I would try and give him the gift, and ask him if anything is wrong between the two of you. The only way to find out is to ask. If there is something wrong try and do your best to remedy the situation.
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