Is my husband still cheating with his close friend?

by **elkan80** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 6:12 pm

he is an athelete and so is the girl
He had a really close female colleague with whom he was really good friends for 5 years and i had a inkling that he really liked her for ages.
she was 19 when they go to know each other.now shes 24 and my husband is 31.i am 30.
they would joke,take pictures,would always sit beside each other together ,sit together and were close.
i saw a picture of them in which he posed with her really intimately at night in a dark parking lot,holding her closely by the waist-
then after 2 months he thrashes her publicly on radio for sleeping around,how many men he knows she slept with and even said that she must be in bed with a guy named Adam while hes talking.
he had to apologize forcibly to the girl though.he wasnt willing to say sorry.that same time he mentioned me some times like to show how much his in laws love him,what he put me through when he overdosed on drugs 5 years ago,i love him and how much he likes me.
at first the girl replied that the best way to fight stupidity is by ignoring it but i heard that she had forgiven him for his trash talk.
after two months when my husband was asked about her publicly he said he is a big fan of her and she ll win her scheduled fight which she eventually did.
even after that incident i have noticed his upper lip really swollen.
AND Just 3 weeks ago at a public event i saw her near him.though they both were immersed in talkin to people she was around him.
hes off from work for 2 weeks since he has back pain but will return on 16 Jan.incidently this girl's birthday is on 15th and he ll leave a day earlier as he has to board flights to the designated venue.
have they patched up?

by **ingel** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 6:19 pm

back pain ha

by **webb** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 6:25 pm

It sounds like to me he is more into this girl..you need to test him girly. Hit him where it hurts, cheat back on him, or go out with guy friends and act close with them. You do not deserve this at all. He should be ashamed of himself. She is a slut!

by **ingel** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 6:40 pm

Clearly he really likes her but as for whether he is cheating on you...you will have to do your own investigations. Observe him, his behavior, how he spends his time etc. Right now you have NO evidence that he is cheating and you should never accuse him unless you have evidence.

by **delrico** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 6:41 pm

i think you really do know the answer. there is definaltely sexual tension, jealousy. perhaps you need to pay a surprise visit.

by **boyce** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 6:43 pm

why do you keep posting the same question a 100 times?

by **gobrwy** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 6:58 pm

Do you like having a soap opera for a life? This all sounds like a drama that needs to be cut off. You are actually married to this guy? Why? Is he caring towards you loving? Supporting? Fulfills your needs? Why are you even tolerating this mess? I think you need to step back and open your eyes and see why you are even going back and forth on all this worthless dramas etc. He's having an affair wanna bet? When they have lovers spatts then he's all upset. Then he's making up endless stories to cover it up. He needs to end this so called "closeness" if that is what it only is. But it doesn't sound like just a friend thing to me. Or else why all this going back and forth crud? I don't understand why women pretend they don't see the obvious. This is not a friendship I see that is good for your marriage. If you want to be happy and without all this mess that friendship needs to be cut off now! If he objects there is more going on for sure.

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