Male Opinion On Friends W Benefits Question?

by **Garanhon** » Mon Feb 02, 2015 3:13 pm

i am friends with benefits with my best guy friend of 3 years.im just wondering, in your opinion, would he think less of me / less of our friendship because of this?i also got freaked out a bit, because he kept inviting me to the movies, and then he would cuddle with me and kiss me.. felt a bit to romantic for my liking.. but yeah..im just scared that when we do end our friends with benefits thing, our friendship will go down the drain?have you been friends with benefits with your best girl friend? any bad experiences after you ended things?

by **Charlemagne** » Mon Feb 02, 2015 5:01 pm

Actually, it CAN work out.

by **Fnam** » Mon Feb 02, 2015 7:14 pm

captjeff said: 5 well, both parties have to understand tha "friends w/ Benefits" is a tempary condition, both parties satisfing their sexual wants and needs, as friends, but both knowing that in a loving heartbeat, the whole thing can change... my bosses girl friend and i had that arrangement,(they were both women, with a deteriating lezbo relationship) QT and i were always friends, and things got a little closer as time progressed and their inevetable break up... so we "serviced each other" until she hooked up with a new girlfriend, and being connecticut, formed a civil union with here new girlfriend...so at that, it was fun, no one at work suspected a thing - they knew she was gay, it was the perfect affaire...btw, guys, just because a girl 'sas' she's gay, does not mean all her natural biological drives and desires are... :-> 75 months ago

by **Bradleah** » Mon Feb 02, 2015 11:54 pm

Mr_M_told_U_so said: 1 There's no hard and fast rules. "Friends with benefits" is NOT for everyone. 75 months ago

by **Chayim** » Wed Feb 04, 2015 12:12 am

Pam_I_Am said: 2 In my(admittedly old-person opinion), "friends with benefits" is not for anyone, for precisley the reasons you're discussing(and many, many other reasons, as well). 75 months ago

by **Rockland** » Wed Feb 04, 2015 3:29 am

There's no hard and fast rules. "Friends with benefits" is NOT for everyone.

by **Clifton** » Wed Feb 04, 2015 8:56 pm

well, both parties have to understand tha "friends w/ Benefits" is a tempary condition, both parties satisfing their sexual wants and needs, as friends, but both knowing that in a loving heartbeat, the whole thing can change... my bosses girl friend and i had that arrangement,(they were both women, with a deteriating lezbo relationship) QT and i were always friends, and things got a little closer as time progressed and their inevetable break up... so we "serviced each other" until she hooked up with a new girlfriend, and being connecticut, formed a civil union with here new girlfriend...so at that, it was fun, no one at work suspected a thing - they knew she was gay, it was the perfect affaire...btw, guys, just because a girl 'sas' she's gay, does not mean all her natural biological drives and desires are... :->

by **Willhard** » Wed Feb 04, 2015 8:59 pm

Mr_M_told_U_so said: 4 Actually, it CAN work out. 75 months ago

by **Elwen** » Thu Feb 05, 2015 5:58 am

It never ends well, when it does end, which it will. You will never be friends again. I'm not a guy, but from experience, I know this one!! Pam is right. It's too ideal to last and someone will get hurt! Sounds like it may be him, cuz he's getting serious.

by **MacNicol** » Thu Feb 05, 2015 10:00 pm

LILYGAL said: 3 It never ends well, when it does end, which it will. You will never be friends again. I'm not a guy, but from experience, I know this one!! Pam is right. It's too ideal to last and someone will get hurt! Sounds like it may be him, cuz he's getting serious. 75 months ago

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