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[rumford]

Me and my husband where having problems and i found out he was having an affair with a co worker. Well after a heated weekend we separated. I told my mother in law that i would not take our son out of her life because what he son did. well after 4 days of me and my husband separating she flipped out on me and turned her back on me and my son. We were only separated for a month and then got back together. Well in that whole month she became bff with the girl my husband left us for and didnt try to contact me or my son. Well as me and my husband started fixing are marriage she automatically assumed that i would go back to normal with her. Well i wouldnt talk to her or let her see my son. She then decided to make the other woman her "step daughter" on facebook and kept telling her how much she loves and misses her. so I cut her out of our son life completly. As this is all going on her other sons (16 yrs olf and 18) are sitting online threatening to beat me up and telling me they dont care about my kid. Finally i blocked them all on facebook and wanted no contact with them. They have tried to come to my house and "surprise me" while we were living with my husband grandma. We finally moved back to MD but unfortanually she lives in the same town as us( its a small town) . She has my new cell phone number, she knows i have my husband facebook password, she even knows my address. She has never attempted to say sorry or talk this problem out. She blames everything on her bipolor. Me and my husband have been fighting alot because he think its time to make up ( idk understand why because she would give him her pills and then call him a drug addict, kicked us out the house while we were 8 months preg. and got mad that we got our own place, told my husband just last month he was dead to her. etc a very mental abusive person) I want to get other people advice who are a 3rd party to all this. Please help me. What should i do? Am i crazy?

[vemados]

tell here i hope get better

[celeste]

Hi sorry to hear about your issue. Though she was at fault by her actions, it seems that the only way you will get some sense of peace with your family is by taking the first step and talking to her. You have do decide what you're overall goal is. Do you want to keep your marriage together and in peace? Or do you want to win an agreement? Romans 12:10 mentions that when showing honor take the lead. Is this always easy? Of course not especially when dealing with someone who is augmentative and has mental health issues. However for the sake of your marriage, not necessarily for her benefit, make peace.

[bothan]

Cut her out of your life.