My brother depresses every one. Why doesn't he Undestand?

[lamarr3]

My brother was in US for 8 years.We were looking matches for him here.His requirements was fair ,beautiful, posh,tall,slim,good family,and educated which was every thing.He was not compromising and rejecting many and some rejected him.I asked him to see any girl he likes and get married. After 4 years I totally gave up said to him to choose by him self and finally he choose a girl and happily got married.After a month he started complaining about who bad she is like he is not tall, cunning ,out of shape, doesn't respect him,doesn't listen to him ,talks about only her family ,crys etc. Now that she is pregnant they had a fight about her sister and i think she is enable take this .Both are ready to leave each other.I don't want them to separate. She is not that bad just little stubborn . My brother says she talks all about her sister. he doesn't want my sister in law to go to her sister house, which is bad .I think he is wants her to leave for some or other reason.That is why he is stoping her. In spite of us explanation like things will change and its wrong if he doesn't let her go to her sister what ever the disturbances between you and her sister. He stubbornly argues saying they insulted him and I cant digest her going to those who insulted him.We are trying to explain.But do you really think he will change ofter the child is born or let this marriage break before the child is born.

[chason62]

My brother was in US for 8 years.We were looking matches for him here.His requirements was fair ,beautiful, posh,tall,slim,good family,and educated which was every thing.He was not compromising and rejecting many and some rejected him.I asked him to see any girl he likes and get married. After 4 years I totally gave up said to him to choose by him self and finally he choose a girl and happily got married.After a month he started complaining about who bad she is like he is not tall, cunning ,out of shape, doesn't respect him,doesn't listen to him ,talks about only her family ,crys etc. Now that she is pregnant they had a fight about her sister and i think she is enable take this .Both are ready to leave each other.I don't want them to separate. She is not that bad just little stubborn . My brother says she talks all about her sister. he doesn't want my sister in law to go to her sister house, which is bad .I think he is wants her to leave for some or other reason.That is why he is stoping her. In spite of us explanation like things will change and its wrong if he doesn't let her go to her sister what ever the disturbances between you and her sister. He stubbornly argues saying they insulted him and I cant digest her going to those who insulted him.We are trying to explain.But do you really think he will change ofter the child is born or let this marriage break before the child is born.

Did it ever occur to you to mind your own business and stop interfering in this marriage, perhaps if you were to stop poking your nose in they might just be able to work out whatever problems they have by themselves.

I'm glad your not my brother because by now you just might be sporting a black eye

[teyrnon72]

The problem is, they don't understand each other..
They should'nt breakup..!
I think ur brother is very selfish, he need to change his behaviour. As fas as his wife is consult she too needs to behave well and she should'nt say what her husband dont like and follow what ever he says and yes, she can meet her sister but witout addressing her husband.
And yes they should not seperate that is very bad for their child..
The should compromise for their coming kid.!