My friend is pretty touchy feely, we're both girls...Do I go along with it or pretend not to notice?

[regenweald]

I have this friend (we aren't that close though),we're both 17 and straight.Well I'm not sure if she's 100% straight....she has a boyfriend, but last year she said she's a little bi/bi tendencies.

Description of her - She's one of those really beautiful girls everyone obsesses over, but she's not conceited...she's kinda reserved and cool, calm.

Well I notice she's tries to be close to me a lot. If we're sitting side by side, she leans really close to me/leans on the bar between us. In class whenever I leaned forward in my desk, she would lean back in her desk (I sat behind her). Sometimes she would lean back and ask me really obvious questions like"what does this word mean?",the way she'd say it...she'd kinda whisper then come really close to my face. Or if we're working as partners, sitting side by side...I'll be holding the paper or whatever and she'll move in really close to me (I can't really explain it)...Also she would like lean and stretch back onto my desk (literally all over my desk lol) then stare/smile at me teasingly or be like "oh sorry :)"

The other day we were at this place, I was sitting in this barstool and she was standing beside me, but resting her arm on the back of my seat...I could feel her moving closer to me...so I just kinda moved closer to her because it seemed like she was gonna whisper something to me,but she didn't...

And also she STARES at me a lot...Sometimes she turns around just to stare at me, look at whatever I'm doing or wearing, andsmile at me...I always pretend like I don't notice though..She gives me a huge hug when she sees me...but mostly she just stares at me. She's so quiet...so her actions make her even more mysterious

[fyfe]

I have this friend (we aren't that close though),we're both 17 and straight.Well I'm not sure if she's 100% straight....she has a boyfriend, but last year she said she's a little bi/bi tendencies.

Description of her - She's one of those really beautiful girls everyone obsesses over, but she's not conceited...she's kinda reserved and cool, calm.

Well I notice she's tries to be close to me a lot. If we're sitting side by side, she leans really close to me/leans on the bar between us. In class whenever I leaned forward in my desk, she would lean back in her desk (I sat behind her). Sometimes she would lean back and ask me really obvious questions like"what does this word mean?",the way she'd say it...she'd kinda whisper then come really close to my face. Or if we're working as partners, sitting side by side...I'll be holding the paper or whatever and she'll move in really close to me (I can't really explain it)...Also she would like lean and stretch back onto my desk (literally all over my desk lol) then stare/smile at me teasingly or be like "oh sorry :)"

The other day we were at this place, I was sitting in this barstool and she was standing beside me, but resting her arm on the back of my seat...I could feel her moving closer to me...so I just kinda moved closer to her because it seemed like she was gonna whisper something to me,but she didn't...

And also she STARES at me a lot...Sometimes she turns around just to stare at me, look at whatever I'm doing or wearing, andsmile at me...I always pretend like I don't notice though..She gives me a huge hug when she sees me...but mostly she just stares at me. She's so quiet...so her actions make her even more mysterious

Hmm maybe she's just horny lol. I had a friend like that too, once at her birthday party we were walking around at night in this sketchy area and we kept hearing these weird noises so I started to get a little nervous, and so she noticed and then walked really close to me and then eventually grabbed and held my hand.. So I didn't know what to do but after a little bit I just let go haha. So for advice I would say go along with it if you're the "adventurous" type or wanna have fun with it (not in a lesbian way), you know? It might just be kinda funny/entertaining. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable I would talk to her about it or if you don't want it to be that serious you could just be like "Ew why do you keep trying to touch me freak :P" or something like that and keep doing that every time she tries something, and maybe she'll stop. Hope I helped some and good luck girl(:

[dalon]

say something as a joke, like "back away from me you creep" and laugh because then she won't be offended because you laughed and she might say something!