My Husband Walk Out Of Our Marriage And Lease Apartment For 1 Year After A 4 Day Stay He Wont's 2 Come Back Home.

[Amiti]

break apartment lease. lease the apartment for 1 year and stay 4 days now I wont out can I break the lease. what should I do

[Banjiman]

sell your home, move into the apartment with him

[Curran]

Your husband(or someone) is trying to have it both ways. Go, leave, return, wants to stay, and make money on the side in the meantime. Pick one of those, maybe two, but NO ONE gets to do all three in any business nor in any arrangement. Changing residence costs money. Your husband has now changed residence twice, and that will cost twice. Now, if YOU are leasing from the owner, then you will merely be required to pay the full amount of using the apartment for the full term agreed on beforehand(which is easier than being the owner, and leasing to another, and trying to evict them mid-lease.) If you are leasing an apartment from someone else, have your husband move in with you in the apartment you are leasing, if his being with you now is that important. Don't spend money you don't have on this.

[FitzAdam]

I say "Too bad", if he was that quick to walk out on you and so deadset on being on his own that he signed a YEAR LONG lease on an apt, he needs to marinate in that for awhile, and accept his decisions like a man. In the meantime, YOU need to decide whether this relationship is worth saving, whether you both need to go to a marriage counselor, or you need to seek a divorce lawyer.If you do decide to get back together, have him talk to his landlord about subletting the apt for the remainder of his lease.

[Langley]

 but do not panic.   1-first of all, he may change his mind.  What were the steps leading up to this--you don't need to tell us but you do need to work out what on earth is going through his mind.  Other woman, pressure of holidays, cash flow, whatever. but DO NOT let him back in til it is sorted!  He can't just flake on you and dump you in a bad situation without there being consequences. Do not 'mother him' -he will treat you even worse. Stay strong and know there is help out there if you just don't panic.   2-second, you can usually get out of a lease if you find someone to take it over 3-ask friends and family if anyone wants to share 4-advertise for a roommate if possible. 5-make sure if you are filing for divorce you get a clear undertaking regarding finances and support. I sure hope you don't have kids involved.  6-what social services support would you be eligible for in your state.    Good luck!

[Stefon]

now let me see if I understand this:you husband walked out on you.he signed a 1 year lease on an apartment4 days later he wanted to move back "home"is that correct? if so, what you should do is find a good counselor. this behavior indicates a major problem, and that problem needs to be identified, before you commit to ANYTHING.

[Radburt]

I am sorry to hear this  but do not panic.   1-first of all, he may change his mind.  What were the steps leading up to this--you don't need to tell us but you do need to work out what on earth is going through his mind.  Other woman, pressure of holidays, cash flow, whatever. but DO NOT let him back in til it is sorted!  He can't just flake on you and dump you in a bad situation without there being consequences. Do not 'mother him' -he will treat you even worse. Stay strong and know there is help out there if you just don't panic.   2-second, you can usually get out of a lease if you find someone to take it over 3-ask friends and family if anyone wants to share 4-advertise for a roommate if possible. 5-make sure if you are filing for divorce you get a clear undertaking regarding finances and support. I sure hope you don't have kids involved.  6-what social services support would you be eligible for in your state.    Good luck! wildaboutbooks44 62 months ago Please sign in to give a compliment. Please verify your account to give a compliment. Please sign in to send a message. Please verify your account to send a message.