One more question about divorce and custody. i am getting divorced from a sex offender that i wasn't aware was?

by **victorio83** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 8:22 am

guilty until later on, and he beat me while i was pregnant. he's spent 13 months of her life in prison, has don't nothing for her, payed nothing, only bitched that it wasn't his kid and that i should be the one taking care of her. I never complained, i've always taken care of my daughter 100%, she is always with me 24/7 since the day she was born. he just got out of prison last month on the 16th, and is now trying to fight me for custody and visitation, i have no issue with him seeing her as long as it is supervised, and preferably not by me, just so he can't say i've done something. Is there any reason why i should worry about him getting anything more than supervised visitation of her, since he's been to prison 4 times, been to jail a couple times, got convicted of domestic battery while i was pregnant, moved 3 times in 1 month, and is currently living in a rooming house filled with ex cons, drug addicts, alcoholics, sex offenders on probation, doesn't have stable employment. Im back in school to graduate high school, i'm starting college for a psychology degree as soon as i pass my last 2 tests. I've just become self employed. And My daughter's brother will be born in june. Do I have anything to worry about? My lawyer doesn't think so, but for some reason i can't trust anyone, so i'm trying to get opinions from someone who's been there and knows the law to a point. I live in wisconsin.

by **ruelle** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 8:30 am

He will get court-supervised visitation (by a social worker, not you). After he fails to show for three or four, and he will, re-file to suspend his visitation. Repeat until he fails to show up for a hearing, in which it will be suspended.

The problem will solve itself. Trust me, I've been there. Now you can get some sleep, okay? :)

by **barraq** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 8:36 am

I don't blame you, but I have it feeling it'll work out for you. Good luck.

Thanx for BA! :)

by **gall** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 8:43 am

Well, what's he look like?

by **vemados** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 8:48 am

1. The bum should be paying child support. 2. You need a restraining order keeping him away from you and the baby. 3. He is DANGEROUS! do not BECOME TOMORROW'S HEADLINE! 4. Personally, I wouldn't allow him near my child supervised or not. No way, no how. 5. There are paternity tests for things like this to make sure he pays towards that child's up-keep. He helped bring her into the world and the bills shouldn't be exclusively yours, period. Take item #3 very seriously, PLEASE!

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