Should I give him another chance?

[dubh35]

I am married to my husband for 8 years now and at first we were happily married together envy by many friends and relatives. 3 years ago, our relationship started to turn rocky and sour with misunderstandings such as his ex appearing, we had 1 little girl together and she had a fever so we took turns to take care of her but hardly talk. How he doesn't like my nagging, alright, that I stopped. But he is still not happy. How he doesn't like me to go to work all the time. But mind you, I care for the family too.

To make the story short, we separated and I found another house to stay. My mother in law likes his ex so much she move in with him. But looks like, his ex evil character is slowly showing up. They often quarreled over little things and he became fed up with her. She started to treat my mil in a mean way too

Now, even my mother in law can't stand her. My little girl missed me and wants me back. So my husband and her mother in law tried to take me back - but I need time to think.

Opinions? Thanks!

[wahchintonka48]

Everyone deserves a second chance. Third? Naw.

[vohkinne]

Everyone deserves a second chance. Third? Naw.

Nope. He should be done like dinner. First of all, the fact that he ended up back with his ex after you left shows that he had obviously been lying to you the whole time about any feelings or attraction he may have had towards her still. 2nd of all. You already had her sloppy seconds once..now you're going to take her sloppy seconds twice??? Have some self respect. Get custody (Full or Joint) of your duaghter and move on with your life. Any man who is going to move his ex girlfriend into the house after his wife leaves, and then expect to move her out and wife in again is a slime ball. Find someone who actually loves you and can give you a fresh new start. Chances are if it didn't work once, it won't work twice. Good luck