by mace » Thu Jun 28, 2012 2:08 pm
Can I get some statistics on your statements? As a young child, my parents would spank me when I became a large nuisance. It was to show that bad behavior would not be tolerated and resulted in punishment.
As of right now, I am 15 years old, and have never smoked/had sex/drank alcohol. I get good grades in school (A's and B's) and am an aspiring musician (I can play French Horn, Trumpet, Piano, Saxophone, Flute, Guitar, and Trombone). My parents and I get along well and I plan on going to college after graduation.
My point is that parents spanking their kids is their own decision. Spanking a child is a good way to make them realize that their behavior is not okay and that they need to learn to be civilized and respectful of other people, despite what they may want themselves.
Now, child abuse is a whole different story. When a child's actions are not acceptable, a parent should not forcefully hit their child in a vulnerable point of attack (face, stomach). Spanking is okay because even though it hurts enough to make a child quit, it can hardly do any real damage unless the adult is hitting them very very hard.
Because I think your intentions are against CHILD ABUSE, and not SPANKING, I will agree that corporal punishment is not the correct way to execute discipline on a child.