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[sylvester37]

Over time I have begun to question things in a different way. As a kid I would always ask, "What have I done to them?" Or, "Do I just look strange?" When I got older I realized that you don't have to do anything to someone for them to target you. I also realized that there is nothing wrong with the way I look.

I have begun to question the minds of those who bully at this point. Is it something instinctual? Some kind of tendency to ostracize? We are told that humans are related to apes. I certainly don't feel like a monkey but apparently others do. They act just like them beating their chests, bullying other people as if it makes them dominant, and truly all I can do is laugh at them for acting like an animal. But it can be obnoxious when you are bullied in your own home. When your roommate decides to bring over that "one guy" who always tries to be the life of the party. I am a solitary person by nature and maybe other people sense that and they get some strange urge to target me because of it. Humans, being social creatures, may in fact get an urge to ostracize others who "feel" strange to them, such as someone who prefers to be alone, or would rather spend their time reading online, or in a book, rather than spend time with other people. I simply feel no desire to join social functions. I never have really.

So is the cause of me being targeted some kind of primitive instinct on part of certain devolved minds? Why do humans still have it if they are supposed to be evolved? What purpose could it possibly serve in a society of laws? I think humanity has some "growing up" to do honestly.

[kalvin71]

You have the answer..You must just avoid them..
It is not entirely your fault. Bullying is an act of IMMATURITY. Anyway, you need to interact more with people. Talk to them, listen to their likes and dislikes about you, why you are being treated like that.
I have a question for you. Can you sense someone if he/she is immature? If so, by gaining the upper hand of being mentally and physically mature, you should adjust yourself to them. Like "Oh, leave those KIDS alone." Just concentrate in you future, trust those you have to trust, live life to the fullest, do your best in many ways without being bothered by their remarks and bad treatment to you. You have to build mental and emotional strength.

[fychan97]

Okay I'm going to teach you something.
Every thing in your life you are attracting.
Everyday u dread the fact about going and getting bullied. Use.the law of attraction to your advantage. Start being positive.what you feel right now is developing your future. So start imagining yourself going to work and not getting bullied do that every day and don't let it bother you. Just shrug your shoulder and smile. You have to remain positive. Then within a matter of weeks you should see a change

[winfrid12]

I completely agree with you. People do things that make me think 'what happened in that messed up head of yours to think that doing this is okay' and stuff like that. I really do think there is a mental problem where people believe it's normal to put others down. Even though it is an often occurance, society doesn't teach you to be that way. Sure a parent could teach their kid to be like that, but once that kid reaches adulthood they should realize that this is not how they should be acting. Nothing gets me angrier than seeing kids bullying other kids. It disgusts me and makes me really wonder about the future of this world. And this is coming from a 17 year old.