Why do abusers get angry when?

[vruyk]

Their victim does not go back to them? They harass, stalk and slander their names why the anger can't they find someone else?

[reid]

Because insecure people need to abuse others in order to feel better about themselves. When there is no one they go after the last person that let them do it. The cycle of abuse is very well studied and I shall include a link in the lower part. This is a very very very very dangerous cycle. I'd include more verys but I'd rather not take up a page. It is a well studied phenomena and not bull s h i t by any means. Please, if you or someone you know is in this cycle then get yourself or them help IMMEDIATELY. They're are organizations all over the world willing to help.

[gerard]

Abusive people are abusive because they are already angry. The anger that effects one most ;is angry at themselves.

[ned]

I am not sure. I think they may be disappointed with the way they handled the circumstances or they may be hurt within themselves and they want things their way? I dont know.