by jasper » Wed Apr 18, 2012 11:48 am
My ex-husband co-signed a vehicle for me 6 years ago when we were married and now it's broken and I want to trade it. The problem is, he's in the military deployed in Afghanistan right now. I have sent him emails about signing his name off the loan so that I can trade. I even emailed his mom here stateside and have received no response (her number is unlisted and I found her online through a locator). I have made every single payment myself and can prove it and I know for sure he wants nothing to do with the vehicle. The finance company refuses to allow me to do anything without his signature, even though I can prove I have already paid over $30,000 toward the vehicle on the payments since it was financed. The vehicle is almost paid off- I have 7 payments to go and fixing it will cost almost twice as much as I owe on it, so I just want to trade it for whatever I can get for it and not have a co-signer on a new loan. I'm thinking I may have to stop the payments and buy another car (through a self-financed dealership, more than likely with a ridiculous interest rate) before the finance company reports a late payment and just let the finance company take the vehicle (yes, repo). I don't want to do this, but if I wait and pay it off, I will have absolutely no leverage for my ex to get off the title once it's paid off and I STILL won't be able to trade or sell it. Is there ANY other way around this? I know he is protected under the Soldiers and Sailors Act, so I can't serve him any court documents and I have no idea when he will be back, so the sooner, the better. I was hoping to trade the vehicle, even though I know I may only get about $5000 for it since it isn't running, and if so, after the finance company is paid off, I would be able to use what's left towards a down payment, b/c I really don't have one at this time. Plus, I would much rather go through my current finance company for a new loan, but those chances are shot if I let them repo the current vehicle. I'm paying A LOT monthly for a vehicle I can't use and could be using that payment on something I CAN use. I have no idea where he is in Afghanistan or his unit or anything, so contacting his Commander isn't really an option and I doubt legal on post will help. Any suggestions?? Oh and I'm in Texas, by the way (if anyone knows a Texas stipulation in the law for this situation).