Can people become friends again?

[syvwkh]

I'm going to make a long story short... I met a best friend when I was 11. We had been friends and inseparable for 13 years. Maid of honors and very close with eachothers children. We have been through our parents divorces/breakups/marriages/absolutely everything together. We have had fights but always made up. Recently things had changed. I got married. She broke up with her son's father
This was a trying time. She became very insecure and I walked on eggshells with her. She started treating me differently putting me down and taking advantageof my generosity. I know I did things to bother her too but we did not talk about these issues. At one point she started seeing her ex again. I found out because I saw her Facebook. She was sleeping with him and my husbands brother. She contracted an STD and would not tell my.brother in law. This aside I decided to write her a letter explaining how I felt and how she had hurt my feelings by treating me badly. Instead of talking about it she blew up and cut off communication with me. My.husband and I decided to tell his brother about the STD. She found out and we had a terrible fight and each said things that way never be able to take back. It was very bad. We have.not spoke in 9 months. I was angry for a long time but recently have felt sad and missing her. I just wanted as to whether or or not people can ever become friends again

[josephus]

I don't know about after that long. But me and my friend were close just like you were. But when we became friends against just wasn't the same she were blowing me off for her other friends who didn't really like her but only liked her when me and her stopped being friends because they didn't like me. Well anyways me and the girl ended up in a fist fight and we haven't talked since

[madison86]

I can bet good money, she is really that anguish too. Probably, she is regretting that she acted in that way.

Someone has to take the brave (fear present) initiative to communicate with the other. I think you are in the better position because you told the truth that needed to be said.

You also need to acknowledged that you did pile onto her life demise, so you should apologize for that.
Telling her, her suffering was not your intentions.