Does It Ever Work-Out If You Do Not Be Friends With Your In-Laws?

[chandler]

It might, but itis an extremely bumpy path. Your committed spouse is location in an extremely hard spot of walking a tightrope in between getting faithful to you and his family members(whom he or she understood and liked) ahead of assembly you.You do not have to enjoy them, but you've to exhibit worth. You can discover household vacations, births, marriages, and so on. that the spouse may want to attend. Certainly, if you do not seem, when my dad married somebody who truly did not healthful that'll make things even much more dicey.That occurred in my own family members, did not attempt to, and even attemptedto get him from the household. Which may possibly be severe nonetheless it triggered unnecessary hardship on every person and put stress on the partnership.   MaryAnn 5 weeks previously

[Griffen]

Yes. I've become amazed at the wonders silence can accomplish.   danielpauldavis 5 months ago

[Claec]

That depends completely upon the relationship your spouse has with his or her own family. If they are close, you're in trouble. If not, the rift was there before you came onto the scene and it might be workable. Some people just aren't close with their families. Therefore, it doesn't matter.You don't have to be best friends with in laws. Just be civil when you have to and don't cause waves. If in doubt.....Valium or a big glass of wine on board before going. :) Yah, I'm bad, but I know what its like to be around in laws that don't think so highly of you.My first husband's parents were religious zealots who thought I had ruined their son's life. Oddly enough though, being 'of the devil' isn't so bad!   Skylight 5 months ago

[MacFie]

Sorry, should have read your comments below. It's normal that you would feel resentment if they don't treat your husband well. That probably goes back a long time, and you realize that it's up to him to stand his ground, reject their criticism and really threaten to stay away from them unless they start treating him with respect.I don't blame you, but he is the one that needs to get some spine.As I said, this probably goes back to childhood. How about suggesting some short-term therapy for him to learn some skills to resolve this family issue. He can use the baby as the perfect foil.   MaryAnn 5 months ago

[newlyn]

This is exactly why I am paying my EX $4,500.00 a month, every month just to get rid of her and her "knuckle-dragging" Sailor talking mother. Some don't like alimony, I love it, they are gone and I am FREE! And I have learned a very valuable lesson from this terrible experience.(that I am reminded of every month when I cut the check) They didn't get along with my family, on either side of the tracks, whenever the old battle axe would come to my parents home, she gave us the immediate impression she was casing the place. Its a real shame when you have to start hiding the silver ware. dishes and other items to make sure they will still be where you left them, after the 'guests' are gone. I am free, oh so free, thank God Almighty, I am free   RoverandFetch 5 months ago

[Manning]

If you live in a different town and don't see them except once a year it may work. My parents didn't like who I married. They may not have liked anyone I married. It was not fair for my husband. He didn't do anything wrong. He eventually stopped going to holidays there.   Shasha 5 months ago