Don't like my sibling? Should I try and mend the situation? (No Names) Long read, my apologies.?

[lintun]

I have a bunch of siblings from one parentA side, and a bunch from parentB side. I love my siblings from ParentA, we grew up together, fought like siblings do and moved on co exist normally today. The siblings from Parent B are scattered across the states due to not sharing the same parent. I love all of them except one, i dont hate him/her and we never grew up together, there are 5 of us, the other ones and i have an ok relationship and if they need help i'd help them, and vice versa. but this one in particular, I have helped, numerous times, and am getting to know him/her more and more, i just dont feel related to this person, he/she is racist, contradictory, and is on and off, one day we talk and i think we're getting somewhere, next day I get the silent treatment for a few days, unless something happens, like when he/she became ill, I was there helping and went to the ER for the entire day with them, when he/she got better the silent treatment again. I'm heading back to NY, I moved out here to try and build a relationship and establish some independence, but i can do it back home, I've wasted money and time here in Seattle. When I go back to NY I most likely won't initiate contact like i previously did before moving out here, we seemed closer miles apart than living in the same house.(Planned on moving out after securing a job and getting used to the new state) I pay rent, and buy food that I dont even eat, for the house cause He/she and his/her mother/Father eats it. and we're suppose to take turns according to them, yet I have done it back to back for stuff i dont eat, and paid the monthly charge of me staying here. I feel like me being a loner bothers them cause it was brought up a few times that "you keep to yourself all the time, no one knows what's going on with you" I feel like i held up my part of the bargain by paying and helping with the food as asked to do, i keep to myself now cause of the bi polar attitude, I'm not in a position to tell them bluntly as I am alone out here, and can't leave for another month, and dont want to be thrown out. But once I leave I will thank them for allowing me to stay there, and be as respectful as possible which I always am so I don't give any reason to cause any conflict. But once I leave I will not talk to this sibling anymore, I've lent him/her money and never asked for a dime back, bought lunch and breakfast daily for the first 2 weeks I got here cause he/she had not been paid yet. after the 3rd week the bi polar attitude came out, and the racist comments, saying in racist things in public places filled with the race he/she is talking about. he/she is jealous of his/her younger sibling from his/her Parents side, and hates the siblings on our shared parents side and slanders them around me, but on facebook says he/she loves them and would do anything for them. He/she hates gossip, yet she gossips about a friend to me that he/she invited to his/her home. We're relatively young (20-26) we're in that age range, so we have a lot of growing and living to do, but I dont want to be blamed when I don't include him/her, and once i can leave I will not have an issue telling him/her why I no longer speak or wish to be as close. Should I try and fix this or just let it be, he/she longs for acceptance from the family that we share, he/she looks nothing like the rest of us, has a different last name, and acts stuck up so the others don't really talk to him/her I was the only one, after me he/she will be on their own trying to fit in with everyone cause I wont be there helping if i decide that this is the end of our relationship.

[forde]

Let it be.