Ex Husband And Estranged Husband - Hacking - Cyber Stalking

[Fitzsimons]

I am involved in a very unique and strange case of domestic violence in which my former ex - husband(divorce 6 years ago) and now my estranged husband who was abusive are goth working together. I have been bullied, intimidated, harrassed and cyberstalked by both via email and text messaged. I'm an intelligent woman with my MBA, a good Job, two daughters and I am just terrified and broken by what's been happening to me.   My estranged husband was recently seen at my window at 2am and I had to call the police and the security in my gated community because I was terrified.  I will be notifying the police today... but I wanted to know the following first.  I am also going to court for adjustment of child support by the first(6 years divorced)ex-husband now(due to one of my kids going away to college).  My "estranged" husband is very wealthy... they are both bringing up the others case and I had to file an "order of protection" against my estranged abusive husband because the treats on my life, and his stalking behavior became dangerous and scary.  He also filed divorce on November 5th and premeditated alot of abusive things and drained accounts and then did not have me served with divorce papers untill Valentines day(the same day he proposed a year earlier).  I have a marriage counselor that we saw briefly since October 12th stating that I have been a vitim of Negligent Intentional emotional distress and a domestic violence victim.  My estranged husband even tried to ask out marriage counselor what it would take to have me place into a mental hospital involuntarily on a 72 hour hold as a means to try to cover up his abuse and attempts at "crazy making".  

My ex-husband of 6 years agon is now out of the blue stating that he wants custody and using this as a platform to try to say that I am an unfit mother.  This will simply not hold up because I am a solid and protective and wonderful mother to my kids.  But still it is scary, expensive, and amazinging two much pressure to have this going on with not one... but two abusive and bullying people.

So  now that you have the back ground here's where the cyberstalking and email hacking comes in:

*Estranged  / controlling  insisted I give him my email /facebook passwords in the past and I did in an effort to be "transparent" and improve trust because I had nothing.  I changed those passwords once I realized how abusive he was becoming.  

* I believe Estranged or Ex Husband used the "easy to anser" - questions that I set my account up with to access my email.

* An entire folder full of 1.5 years worth of email has been deleted out of my hotmail account in the past 4 weeks.  

* The deletion of these emails is distruction of evidence as it would have helped to support both my child support / custody case and the domestic violence and divorce case with my estranged husband.

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- protective orders have been filed against both men

- If they have violated those protective orders and committed additonal cyber stalking or harrassment it is a felony

How do I find out:

* Ip Address for my Ex Husband from 6 years ago()

* IP address for my estranged and abusive husband that had me served with divorce papers on valentines day

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*Is there someone I can hire to help me build a case in cyber stalking and cyber crimes that will add to my existing court case against these bullies?

*How do I report this to the police in Scottsdale, Arizona

*How to I report this to their respective .isp providers?

*Any other suggestions?

[Wyth]

Hi Stephani,

In answer to almost everyone of your questions is that you don't have to do any of this. You should call your local police(guessing Scottsdale?# and report this crime. They will handle it like other crimes. They should have specially trained officers these days to handle the computer crimes that are becoming more and more a art of what we do.

You can help by preserving anything you have, and the sooner you call the police the better chance they have of getting the deleted content from hotmail #MSN#. You have a very strong case, but the longer you wait to get it into the hands of law enforcement the lesser the chance of getting the needed information.

Have copies of any documentation you have #court orders and such# handy when the officers come to take the report. Then they will assign it to an investigator that will call you to follow up. They will handle everything from there. This is a criminal matter from the sounds of it, and it should take care of a lot of your problems one you get it reported and they begin to investigate it.

If you were in Fla we have a cyberstalking law. As for AZ law you can see by reading this: http://www.azleg.state.az.us/FormatDocument.asp?inDoc=/ars/13/02316.htm%26Title=...

The people you describe have broken several of these laws. Easy case if you ask me. Report it ASAP!!

Be well and stay safe, and always back up all of your data to an external hard drive #all e-mails, all files everything you get or create) that way no matter what happens to an online account, you have a copy.