Ex Husband Help Needed?

[flannagain]

I need help!

My ex husband and I were married for about 10 months when I found out I was pregnant. He told me, "either you have an abortion or I'm leaving." Well I considered it. I considered it because I already had two children by one man so I didn't want a 3rd that I would have to support once again all alone. So he drove me to the clinic, but I just couldn't go through with it. So he was going to leave, so I agreed to do it again. So once again, he drove me to the abortion clinic again. But I still couldn't go through with it. So he left me.

Our son is now 12 years old. For the first six years he paid child support and seen our son when it was convenient for him. But then when he was about 6 years old, he and a new girlfriend (a girl he cheated on me with several times) decided to buy a house together. However, they couldn't afford a house payment while paying child support. So he took me to court to gain 50% custody. After he did that to me, he then turned around a few months later and did the same thing to his daughter's mom (from a relationship before me). But as soon as his daughter turned 18, which was this year, he told her she can go live with her mom now if she wants; that he didn't care. Her response was, "I know the only reason he said that is because he doesn't have to pay child support on me anymore"

He sexually abused me during our whole relationship, forced himself on me every since our break up, even raped two of my best friends, and has been violent towards me as well. Like he busted my lip open before, pushed in the bathroom almost falling in the tub while I was pregnant, shoved me into a wall, has called me horrible, horrible names...names I have never even heard of, and has damaged my property.

Our custody arrangement is exchanging our son every from one parent to another every Friday. Tomorrow I am supposed to get my son back and I always call him on Thursdays to tell him I'm going to pick him on tomorrow on Friday. His dad, my ex-husband got on the phone and said I can't have him anymore. Legally he can't do that and I already called my local sheriff department and they told me to just call them when I'm around the corner, to bring my court documents, and they would assist me in getting my son. However, I have two other children and my disabled mom living with me. I am scared for my life and theirs because he knows where I live. If I take the sheriff over there to pick up my son, I am going to be found somewhere in a ditch dead. His family has gang members, some of which have done prison time for murder.

I called WEAVE but they literally said, "Well what exactly is it that you want us to do?" So they are not going to help me.

I used to work for the Family Courts so I am aware of all my legal options. But legally, there is nothing I can do if I want to live. I cannot move because I'm out of work right now. I own my own home which allows me to keep this place for at least six months without paying the mortgage.

Any advice would be helpful. Please no sarcastic, rude, or immature commits. I just need advice.

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