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[kendon19]

Hi, I'm 17 and mother to a gorgeous little 5 month old boy.
My partner is 23 and indigenous from his mothers side.

We have been together for 2 and a half years and during that time i have encountered many run ins with his mother. She didn't want anything to do with me for the first year we were dating because of me and my partners age difference. Then after i fell pregnant she wanted to buy the cot and i said before she purchased it if i could have a look as this was my first child and it was very important for me. She had the option to go shopping with me but no. She then carried on with the whole im so ungrateful. She has a very manipulative hold over her family and whatever she thinks goes. We were living with my partners brother for 9 months and during that time he told numerous accounts of lies to their family about me! I Have been exclusively BF my son and when he was 6 weeks old she told me i should formula feed because my breast milk wasn't nutritious enough and my son was too skinny. I then had a massive fight with my partner and his family and i stayed at my mothers for a week and took my boy to the doctors where they told me he was a happy, healthy, thriving baby and that there was nothing wrong with either of us, Which i knew all along then about 2 weeks later i found out that he had reflux which is every now and again he was unsettled. She was like "Ohh im so glad you found out what was wrong with my grand baby. now you can have a break." There has been alot of encounters where his sister has had a go at my grandmother on fb and i said that i was very dissapointed in her and then she told me she doesn't like my family and isn't going to keep her mouth shut to suit me or my familys needs.. which keep in mind she has never met! I'm not allowed into their home and now my partner is making good money she is asking him to pay for her surgery on her ovaries and to pay their bills and buy groceries! She has a $80,000 a year job an my partners on 52,000! He pays rent, buys food, nappies the whole works and she does the same with her family except her 2 jobless children at home are 18 and 21! and their dad doesn't have a job either! Am i just rude or what i do not know how to go about this situation without being a straight up ***** but that's not in my nature i hate conflict and i usually get along with everybody except this family! Help please!

[giulio]

Why is your partner still living at home if he makes that kind of money. Im sure u can rent a nice place well still being able to take care of u and your baby. If you did have your own place you wont have to fight with ur inlaws. Then every one will b happy