Guy issues... He's using me, isn't he..?

[winwood]

Hiya,
I'm 16 and like a total idiot I met this guy online...
We started chatting (nothing sexual) but he was already calling me cutie even if he'd only seen pictures of me...
Early on he told me he was 24 and asked if it bothered me I basically said "no... it's not like I expect anything to happen between us" but then we talked some more and he wanted to meet up... same here.
I gave him my number and we started texting it got a little more flirty (well sort of a lot) and so I snuck out at night to see him a few days later. We talked on the phone for like an hour before, just small talk but then we met, talked, kissed ( a lot), made out (a lot) and at his hinting I gave him a handjob... He couldn't believe I hadn't done it before actually... but umm so after like and hour and a half he dropped me back home and he texted me the next day... And the day after but then I ran out of credit... so I told him so when I called him, he seemed cool with it. Later we talked online gain and the convo got sexual. The next day after school I called him and we talked just stuff for like half an hour. That was on wednesday and it's Friday night now... I know guys like space and aren't always so clingy and stuff so I've kinda left it alone but I'm worried that he's only using me hopeful of sex...
(which he won't get) because I'm really starting to like him and I feel so stupid :/

So what do you guys think....?
Thanks so much :)

* Incidentally the laws have changed in Australia if you're 16 or over you can have sex with someone who is more than 2 years older than you

[elkan80]

He's a grown man at 24, there are plenty of women out there for him to date. So ask yourself what does he want with a 16 year old? Be smart kiddo. He's using you.

[wethrby]

Why would you....Ugh, I don't even know what to say!

It's just sex that he's after. Stop it >:L and maybe change your number >:L

If you didn't like him before, why on earth did you give him a BJ?! Just because he "hinted" at it...?

My head hurts .-.

[charlot22]

the law has not changed the age of consent in most states has been 16 for a long time --- well you have three choices ---- stop talking to him ----- dont give him anything physical ---- have sex with him ---- if you want to see where it leads then the 2nd choice would be the way to go ---- if you dont do anything physical and i mean nothing no kissing no hugging nothing if he is only interested in sex you wont see him for dust ---- if he is genuine he will respect your decision and keep seeing you ---- if you do decide to have sex make sure its safe sex ---- best wishes (im from oz as well)