He's scaring me and I don't know what to do?

[laureano97]

So, this guy I know is scaring me :L A couple of months ago, he told me his best friend was in hospital with a serious injury and was on life support. When I asked her (because we are also friends, yet he didn't realize this) she said she was fine, nothing was wrong. He had lied to me? We stopped talking.
Recently, we started to talk again because I needed help with a personal problem that I knew only he would understand. He said that he wanted me back, but he never had me? Plus, he has a girl friend at the moment, but claims that's she wont let them break up, otherwise he'd ask me out (again)? He keeps asking me for sex, and making me feel guilty and bad when I say no, so I stopped talking to him again today, claiming I had too much on my mind to go through with it all...but he still wants me. I don't want him, how do I let him down? I don't want him to talk to me anymore, he's starting to scare me (because he is 3 years older than me)

[maddox]

DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM. I cannot stress that enough I lost my virginity at 14 and it really does screw up your life!! Stop talking to him! He's creeping you out and making your life harder! If it was me he'd be gone!

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Boys are very good at making us feel guilty when we say no but don't let that convince you! He'll only hurt you in the long run!!!!!!!! Don't give that boy nuthin!!! Just ignore him or report him to your principle or something for sexual harassment!! DO IT PLEASE!

[darrell]

okay, hes a liar, and a cheater. hes unfaithful to his current girlfriend, saying he wants you. thats not right, because shes still his gf. i dont get how she "wont let him break up" because its his decision. ditch this guy and find someone closer to your age. hes trouble, dont get involved and aviod future pain!

[ear]

RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN . . . Run from him physically, run from him emotionally, run from him spiritually! No matter what problem you may have in the future DO NOT go to him just because you think he's the only one who will understand. You have every right to be afraid of him. Are you under 18 years of age? Tell your parents . . . they will understand more than you realize! Are you over 18 years of age? Get a lawyer to write a 'Cease and Desist" letter (it won't cost very much for one letter). Alright, that is absolutely the best answer I can give and I do pray with all my heart that you listen to all of us! No texting, no calling, no sex, no talking, no anything . . . RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!

[claudius]

You need to end this relationship and stop ALL communication with this guy. You need to tell him that you've decided it's best that you both end the relationship and that you will not be contacting him any more and he should stop contacting you. Then no matter how much he begs and pleads - ignore, ignore, ignore. The moment you give him one glimpse of hope, he'll just keep bugging you. You've got a stalker type and you need to lose him fast. Watch your back..

[ezri]

Look For one im just going to be blunt with you. This guy is just playing games with you and there is no reason to be scared but your sending out mixed signals by talking to him. He is telling you what he "thinks" you want to hear. The best solution is to not take his calls emails nothing!!!! Do not go to him for anything if you do this he will get the hint and move on to the next. Trust me I have seen tuns of guys do the same thing he is doing to you. I am sure he lied about his friend for one to get you to feel sorry for him and two also to keep you on the back burner because he had something else better going on then being with you. He sounds like he is trying to take advantage of you because you are young and I am sure he has used this on way more girls then just you. Just based on what you wrote I can see that you are just a toy for him. Just don't talk to him and he will go away.