Heart Surgery SCARS ! HELP STORY !!! fml?

[archy]

okay hey, when i was little i had heart surgery ! and now i cant go any where with my friends or family without taking off my shirt with these big huge nasty scaes for surgery ! i never go swim anymore and if i do i new a swimming shirt ! only my family knows about these scars noone else not wven my bestfriends !!!!!!! im so scared that people will look at me differenlty and scared when they see my scars ! im so worried about my future because i cant go to the pool or beach and i wanna take of my shirt but i cant !!! :( fml ! next year for high school im going to have to swim by law and i cant wear a swimming shirt ! theres gonna be ALOT of kids girls and guys that will be looking at me ! ive been so scared all my life ! and now i think imma be a virgin the rest of my life becuz i dont wanna take of my shirt and scare girls away ! my scars are nasty ! i hate them !!!!! please help me or give advice ! im swimming this year for highschool by law and its summer and all my friends are going to the pool and keeps inviting me and i keep saying no ! their gonna find out why this year when i swim :((( please help me !

[orson19]

1. make a tattoo out of it.

2. say you fought with a bear

3. you probably can go to a doctor and camouflage your scars.

[augustus]

hehe... you don't need to worry about scars. Chicks will dig it. Make a big story out of... tell them how you had to have heart surgery. Seriously... you don't need to worry. Chin up and own it. It's you. As long as you have confidence about it you'll be fine. Just shrug off any negative comments.

If you want to try to improve the appearance you can use wheat germ oil found at a vitamin store. Rub the oil into the scar for 5 minutes daily. Do this for a few months. This works very well for some people. Sometimes the scar diminishes or in some cases comes off completely. Get a high quality wheat germ oil. You can probably find Standard Process brand on Amazon.

[hampton83]

hehe... you don't need to worry about scars. Chicks will dig it. Make a big story out of... tell them how you had to have heart surgery. Seriously... you don't need to worry. Chin up and own it. It's you. As long as you have confidence about it you'll be fine. Just shrug off any negative comments.

If you want to try to improve the appearance you can use wheat germ oil found at a vitamin store. Rub the oil into the scar for 5 minutes daily. Do this for a few months. This works very well for some people. Sometimes the scar diminishes or in some cases comes off completely. Get a high quality wheat germ oil. You can probably find Standard Process brand on Amazon.

No need to worry, you say you cant take of your shirt, but you just don't want to. Don't be scared, people understand. Just tell them.

[beacher]

Scars are badges of honor. I have several and wear them at the beach proudly. Open heart surgery, defibrillator implantation, appendicitis, saphenous vein removal both legs.