HELP ME PLEASE!!!! I NEED HELP, IM GOING TO CRY! ?

by **albanwr26** » Sat Oct 29, 2011 8:20 pm

I'm 19, and my son is 5 (I know I'm a teen mom, so if your gonna comment about that, just don't.) and before my son was born, his biological father left, and basically fell off the face of the earth. At the time he was 15, and he'd been in trouble with the law, and just an overall trouble maker. He just got into that stuff after I told him I was pregnant. After my son was born (who he has never seen) I forgot about him, didn't care for him, and I was sure he'd got arrested.
Now I'm 19, and my son is 5, and I was on Facebook, and he added me as a friend and send me a message basically saying “ I cleaned myself up, Im trying to get a job, I love you and our son, and I miss you.I'm sorry for everything. I want to be with you and our son, I want to meet up with you and my son where ever you are. I love you Katerina ***** Charles”
IM FREAKING OUT. Im so scared! I know it sounds like an innocent message, but I feel like it isn't. I originally moved away from home because he was harrassing me! I just don't know what to do. I am so scared of him, and I just want him gone!!!! I have a boyfriend now, and I'm afraid he'll find me and hurt me, MY son, and my boyfriend! I haven't told anyone because I know my family will just flip out, and my boyfriend will try and kill him. I keep staring at that message. Then something in me feels bad for him! I feel bad that he probably has no place to live, hungry, poor, and most of all has never seen the AMAZING son we had. Like I have so many things going through my head right now.

What do I do?! Should I talk to him, and work it out so that he can see my son, or just ignore him.

Also, could he take me to court and lust custody of my son ?!? Please tell me no. I'm crying right now, I can't handle all this. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!

by **oded** » Sat Oct 29, 2011 8:26 pm

It is not fair on the child for him to come back into his life after 5 years. Block him on facebook and have nothing to do with him. Your son dose not need this and neither do you, you have a new boy friend just live your own life now.

As I said he did not want to be there for the first 5 years then he can live with the consequences for at least the next 5 years.

You need to do what is right for your son, and having to explain that his dad did not want anything to do with him until now is not really a good thing.

by **rolfe16** » Sat Oct 29, 2011 8:29 pm

ok its ok first i know you think its hard but tell your parents and have someone check it out then have someone check him out while your in the car or something and yes he can go to court but you will win your the mother youve took care of him and he loves you

by **han** » Sat Oct 29, 2011 8:33 pm

hey, no worrys, im a teen mom too, basicly this happened to me too, tell ur pparents, trust me!!!1

by **felabeorbt** » Sat Oct 29, 2011 8:38 pm

If he was harrasing you that bad, do not contact him at all. Its not a good idea. But, if the harrasing wasent to bad, go out for a coffee with him and disscus stuff

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by **calin** » Sat Oct 29, 2011 8:45 pm

My goodness! Dollies certainly get around a lot more than they did in my day. I mean -- don't get me wrong -- Huckle, the only boy in the S. Shortcake crew, did, heh heh, _get around_ -- but he did not have a Facebook account. Your dollies must have very exciting adventures!

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