Help!!!!!: single young mother:dont know what to do about school?!?

[seager]

im 23 years old and have a 4 year old I am very interested in law and journalism so I applied to two different places and I cant decide what to do. I live in montreal and wasnt able to get into university here without being a mature student so i decided to apply in toronto and vancouver.
1st option: is a college for broadcast journalism which is a 2 year program pros: my sons grandma (exs mum)and cousins live there (also my ex is not far away he wants to stay in montreal)so they could help out, toronto is a cosmopolitan city great for journalism cons: its a college program so i would just get a college degree and its not guaranteed money with journalism.
2nd option: 4 year program at a university with major in journalism and minor in criminology.
pros: i would get a university degree and could go to law school after that if i wished to do so, vancouver is beautiful, my parents and brothers and sisters are closerrr than now (they live 10 hours from vancouver- right now they live 4 days away lol)
cons: it is a long program, vancouver is not as much of a city as toronto, no broadcast opportunities at this school, no family but good friends.

what would you suggest i should do?

[salvadore94]

Go where your child has guaranteed contact with parents and grandparents while you aren't there. The second choice only benefits YOU, not the child. And since you decided to have her, you have to put her needs first here. Thats what a good mother does. If that goes well, she can live with her dad while you go to law school by yourself afterward. She needs her family nearby when she has a problem, and vancouver is NOT it.