Horrible mother in law please answer i need advice! :(?

[delron]

my mother in law who is 50 has now moved out of her rented accomodation and in with her boyfriend. Me and my partener are still living in her rented accomodation and we move out in a week i am 10weks pregnant with his child and we are very happy. I have recently found out that she said that 'if i was her daughter she would frog march me down the abortion clinic' and her mother who would in effect be the childs great grandmother has been 'praying for divinve intervention (miscarridge). i am very upset about this and sent my partners mother a text saying that her comments are disgusting and after having miscarriages herself i wouldn't of thought she would be like that, i asked her to stay away from me. She has in return let herself into the house when me and my partner have been here and has screamed in my face and has said that shes entitled to her opinion and that i am disrespectful for texting her, i am not meant to know about the comments as she didnt say them too me only my partner . I told her they were hurtful and as far as she is concerned that is how she feels and has not done any wrong. She continued to swear and shout at me so i walked away and asked her to stay away as i dont need any more stress at the moment and she followed me and continued to shout. My partner is really upset from the lack of support from his family as am i. We are both responsible , happy and i know we will be great parents and i cannot see how his family could be this nasty. I no longer know what to do and we are both feeling very depressed about the situation.
* my partner stood beside me and infront of me when his mother became too close and asked her to stop shouting and she would not listen. He is very supportive of me.

[karlitis]

I'm really sorry your mother in law is being that way. You are right in that you don't need that kind of stress while you're pregnant. When you say you're living in "her" rental accommodation, is she the owner of the property? If not I'd speak to the landlord about changing the locks, if I were you. Even though you're moving shortly, you don't want her to be able to just barge in and cause you grief like that.
Have you talked to your husband about it? You may want to look into legal action if she's verbally abusing you. Tell your husband he needs to deal with his mother and make sure it doesn't happen again or you're going to get a PFA or restraining order.
As far as fixing the relationship.. She sounds like a quack, I wouldn't even concern myself with it if I were you. As long as you and your husband are happy, and he's supportive of you, that's all that matters.

Good luck and congratulations on the baby!

[darvell]

You all need to sit down like adults and find out what is troubling her...She will always be his mother, he's always going to love her no matter what happens, she will always be a part of your life. Good luck