by aingeni » Fri May 25, 2012 12:40 pm
An 80-year-old relative with anger/mental health/dementia issues has been driving on a suspended license (for numerous speeding and other tickets and intentionally crashing her car into a building out of anger) and was caught, placed on a 72 hour hold in a psych ward, and her car impounded. She is very difficult, refuses to be forthcoming about any penalties and is demanding her relatives take her to pick up her car. So far no one will take her because she wants them to pick up the car and then turn it over to her to drive. Her children have tried to get medical and law authorities to hold her accountable over the years, but she is a master at lying and temporarily acting the poor, sweet, little old lady. We think she will figure out a way to get her car back and then she will be back on the road, speeding, getting lost for hours or days, driving recklessly. How can her children find out what is going on and get the authorities to take this problem seriously? She ordered the people in the psych ward not to speak to anyone about her, so they wouldn't even listen to her children. She refuses to go to a doctor or take any medication. This is in California.