How can i become a happy person ? Help me. I need your help.?

[ji]

I'm 21 male. I'm innocent, introvert, senti and shy guy. My gf has changed my life. I mean she made me un satisfied person in my life. She was just changed and ditched me for other guy. I really love her. She is very rich and at the last moment she told me POOR, LOSER, etc..which i couldnt bear. I cried alot for her bt she didnt care....Now i have only 1 dream to become a Rich man through higher education. But after ditching her , my life is like machine. Just study and hard work. I dont know i made my self very workoholic and my smile is gone 4ever. I'm completely changed man. Now i do only study hard, nothing else. I just remember my dream all the day. I want to become a rich man, nothing else.. But i feel internally that i'm not satisfied guy because i dont have own house, property etc. Am i on the right way? She changed my life and i lost my life 4ever.

[gervaso81]

Just u are 21. Right now u concentrate on your education. Once u grow up , U will get maturity and one time u will come to know that u will be the winner. ur studies and ur age learns u lessons that all the things happened in your child hood are just silly. Real wisdom in man comes only from ur knowledge, Then everything, like money, property, fame and mansions automatically follows in your life.
All the best
Rao

[patwin87]

You have an unearthly hole in your spirit that you are trying to fill with earthly things. The thing you seek is free, and costs no money. But you must look not in material things. Money is a distraction to the disease, not the cure.

[jomei69]

think about your childhood when you didnt need any reason to be happy.. no pain, no desires, no sad feelings just happy.. do whatever you want to do which gives you happiness and joy, i am a guy and i remember my childhood when i used to watch cartoons, paint, write etc.. so lovely days.. happiness is just inside your mind. just think about things which makes you happy and gives you sensations..

[bedyw25]

dude!!!!!!! she does't not run your life ,u do.BE a rich man not because some idiot girl ditched u,Be a rich man if you want to.Being happy will be the biggest slap on her face.Just stay happy.Take things lightly.don't be hard on yourself.Love yourself.And have Faith that God is there and he is taking care of everything !!!!! smile :)