How can i get my husband to spend more time with our family?

[pete]

My husband and i have been married for almost a year.. I've always felt like he didn't spend much time with me, but I'm starting to see it more now.. he works for anywhere near 8-12 hours a day Monday to friday, he comes home to a clean house and served dinner.. he eats and goes to sleep... And do it all over again.. sometimes I even have to beg for sex, I've come to the point of masturbating (sorry TMI) but if one of his friends calls he would drop everything sometimes even dinner with me, and goes to meet all their requests, on the weekends he usually goes out with his friends. Lately he has been taking me since my sister in law is dating one of his friends she asks me to tag along, but when I am there its if I am not anyway, sometimes he brings his friends home, and asks me to lock my self in my room so they can have "guys time" I am really getting so sick and tired of it, to the point I've been thinking phase a divorce people tell me to do the same but with a 1 year old baby and no car is nearly impossible for me to go out with friends, I am at home all day and he is rarely even here and when he is its like he is not... It's always either his friends or family always "needs him" but i need him too.. how can I help him realize that?... What should I do, I am scared to leave 1 because i love him like I've never loved anyone before and 2 because I don't want to break our home apart our family and all the plans we've made together.. I just want this to stop.. and for us to be a family with him being with us........ Please any advice?

[adare]

schedule

[bean]

Advice: Get rid of his dumbazz.......go out and find a man that will pay attention to you and cater to your needs.

[colfre]

I feel for you and i am extremely anti-lazy,manipulative and selfish feminism !

But you sound like a real woman.
You make him dinner, clean the house etc
That is my perfect woman.
I am married to one just liek that.
And i am very happy and will always love and respect my wife for who she is and what she does.
You need to sit him down and have a serious heart to heart talk with him.
Or see a marriage counselor.
Hopefully he is just in a rut at the moment.
He might also be feeling neglected and not know how to voice his feelings.
Us men need a good woman to help us get those words out sometimes.

The soft, passive woman always wins with their man.
The fast paced, sellfish, new age women are in for a sad surprise with their men.
hope this helps

[toryn34]

How old is your husband? It sounds like he is you an wasn't ready to be married. Have you tried talking to him and telling him that you would like to spend more time with him? Maybe you can recommend scheduling a family day once a week. Definitely seek counseling because there is an underlying issue. Any man who loves and cherishes his wife would want to spend as much time with her as possible. Good luck with your marriage.