How do I leave this abusive relationship?

by **arrigo** » Mon Jul 09, 2012 12:03 am

I started dating this guy Josh, he was amazing and sweet and smart and perfect for me.
He's 20 and I'm 18. about a month into our relationship he became homeless and my parents asked if he'd like to move in. He was asked to get a job to pay rent, he was given a guitar, hes given as much food as he likes, my father even built him a computer. But after a few weeks he became abusive.
We'd get into fights and at first he broke my foot by stepping on it, and it seemed like an accident. The next time he hurt my wrist pretty bad and I got a little worried but then my parents went on vacation. While they were gone, he choked me, strangled me, hurt me, bit my face. He calls me names and insults me all the time. At one point I asked him to leave and he went crazy, refused to leave so I called my brother in law, Josh brought out a knife and threatened to kill me and my bro in law. I calmed him down enough to act sane. but I know if I dump him or make him leave he'll probably come back and hurt this house and my family and me!
He's the sweetest guy in the world when hes not angry, but I'm not the type of girl to be in an abusive relationship and put up with him. I just dont know what to do.
He's unhappy alot and I know its not gonna work. I wish he would just change but I know thats stupid of me to be thinking because he wont.
My parents are aware of most of what happened but they tend to leave things up to me.

by **ailwyn** » Mon Jul 09, 2012 12:13 am

Call the police on him. He'll be put away for a while and trust me he will not be coming back.

by **forde** » Mon Jul 09, 2012 12:22 am

Your parents need to kick him out. That kind of violence is unacceptable. He's putting all of you in danger.

You kick him out. Make sure you change the locks and tell him to get help.

by **jocheved** » Mon Jul 09, 2012 12:25 am

Do you have a older brother or a friend who's a boy if you do get to him to beat the **** out of this ****** he sounds like a chicken **** who can't hold in his anger and has to express it on others if there was a guy hurting some one in my family I'll freaking kill the son of a ***** don't put up with this ***-holes crap get someone to knock some sense into him.

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