by Jasmin » Mon May 12, 2014 4:37 am
@ dogmatique My husband was in prison(not proud but it is what it is) from 6months prior to the child's birth until 3.5 yrs old,they did retro support,and he can't fight it because he did not file to let them know he was in prison,which by the understanding between him and the mom she was not going to seek child support,he had no idea she filed for it and 6 months after they started the support order,my husbands father received notification that they started it(that's where they sent the notification/order as it was his last known address before prison,the mother did not disclose his true whereabouts,which they do ask every time you file for a motion/hearing/new support order). And he could not file to have them drop that 3.5 yrs support order because he was incarcerated,the time limit of 6 months to contest it was up. So basically..that's why. As I did not state that in the previous comment.He then was ordered to pay $880 per month,and did so for 2yrs,then lost his job, then the hearing for modification/lower support was denied,so while only able to make $100 payments each month for 18months,his arrears started plus a 6%interest put on each unfulfilled monthly payment then an annual 6% interest on the overall balance.As of right now he is making $150 payments each month,which is not much but all we can afford, but that's only $1800 dollars per year,not a lot when you are looking at his arrears balance.
@ JK Nothing is wrong with supporting the child,my husband has never ran from supporting him, it was just a simple question I asked out of curiosity,we now have 3 children together and I am also trying to support them efficiently and in this economy it is getting hard, It is what it is. Basically the child has always been with a silver spoon in his mouth and the mother " use your payments to go on mall shopping spree's,I don't need your money,but thank you for supplying me with a new wardrobe!" That is straight from her mouth. This is who we are dealing with. Meanwhile, we are scraping by clothing our children at the thrift store. Just frustrated. She is the irresponsible one,not my husband. It has,is,and always will be a way to lash out at him for going to prison in the first place,he is not proud of it he just turned 18 and the judge used him as an example for other teenagers. Anyway. We will continue to do the right thing,without expecting in return,maybe a small break would be nice. I have heard about a COAP(compromise on support)..any info on that in the state of Michigan? Again thank you.