How's my résumé? Why am I single?

[nickson]

People tell me I have a really great résumé when it comes to being attractive to girls, but I've been single for 2 years?

THE GOOD
1: I'm 18 male
2: I'm a musician. Piano. 10 years.
3: Just graduated high school with 3.75 cumulative GPA
4: Took 4 college-level classes my senior year and got 4.0
5: Lead role in the high school musical (Evelyn in "Anything Goes")
6: Worked at Jack in the Box for 2 years
7: Hollister model
8: Pv2 in the Army National Guard
9: Lettered in swimming
10: Trumpet section leader in marching band
11: Ht/Wt: 5'10/170
12: Bench-Press max: 255 lbs
13: I'm pretty ripped, not gonna lie
14: short (military cut) brown hair, brown eyes
15: I bought my own car
16: Never been drunk/never drank alcohol
17: Never used tobacco in any form
18: Never done any kind of drug
19: Never had sex
20: Never been in trouble with the law (got pulled over twice, but warnings both times)
21: Never been in a fist fight

MY PERSONALITY
1: I like somebody until they show they don't deserve it (innocent until proven guilty personality)
2: I never lie. As in, maybe 1 a month. not including sarcasm
3: I know there's always a way out and a better solution eventually, so I never stress over little things
4: I treat everyone with respect. Absolutely everyone without an exception.
5: I'm not interested in sex. I don't stare at boobs (let alone pay attention to what size a girl has) and I have no idea what's so interesting about butt sizes.
6: I'm a modest guy. I don't like other girls with short shorts or low-cut tops or anything that's supposed to turn a guy on. I like a nice girl with a pretty face that knows how to properly cover her body.
7: I'm modest in my expectations of other people; I don't like to wear shirts myself. I'm a show-off that way
8: I always love where I am. 4 hours at Hollister in flip-flops? I can handle that. Doing push-ups at drill for the USNG? It helps me get even more ripped! I think of the good things in the situations and I never complain unless it will improve the conditions of the situation (saying it's too hot to whoever controls the heat, but not just complaining about it to my peers)
9:I have pretty conservative values. I hate it when people drink or smoke, it's a total turn-off. I've learned to live with people that have had sex, but it's pushing it. I went to a Christian academy my 9/10th grade so I'm pretty versed in the bible and stuff
10: Since moving to public school my junior year, I've become agnostic. idk what to believe now

[banys]

Women don't care about all of those things you listed that make you a "great guy" at first. Eventually they will love that but to meet a woman and get her interested you're going to have to drop the good guy act and flatter the hell out of her. Modest, nice guys everywhere have trouble with this. You don't have to be obnoxious but you're going to have to step out of your box for a while. You may think you complimenting her body or her outfit is going to put her off but chances are it will not.

[dallen47]

try asking a girl out

[salvadore94]

whats with the accent mark on the e's?

[max]

You seem like a nice enough guy, but you're young so you have plenty of time to find someone. Maybe you just haven't been hanging out in the right places to meet the kind of girls that you would be able to "click" with.

[stephon14]

Have a great resume. A lot of girls would want to date you. Just make sure she's not a bitchy *** skank. But I would date you. Maybe girls just feel to low to ask you. Try asking them.

[voliny13]

Pretty impressive resume, you are hired haha! But seriously, people always assume its them. Read over it and think about all that you have accomplished, could you have accomplished all of this if you weren't single? Sometimes we have to focus on ourselves and achieve our goals before we can focus on dating. It can be a distraction sometimes. You seem very intelligent, confident and have your head on your shoulders. You might come off as too good to be true to many women (not a bad thing). But they might not think they have a chance with you.... ever thought of that? Being single is not a bad thing, you've clearly been busy the past few years working hard for yourself and your future.

Word of advice, don't stop working hard for yourself and your future and if you want to date, approach a girl, get to know her and ask her out, no harm in that! Also, don't force anything, maybe right now may seem like the right time but it really isn't. When the time is right, love will come, but for now, don't rush trying to date, let it happen on its own!

[chika]

I think you av become too plastic and robot like. Loosen up girls look for different things. Probably you are in a stale environment. Go to the beach, to a bowling alley the mall where you can meet a girl start as friends and see how it goes. Its good u avnt had sex keep it up and be happ cause most girls seem fake nowadays and u desrve the best

[cumhea]

its nice....

[lintun]

Ain't maturity a *****? :P Sorry dude, girls your age won't like you! Only mature girls will like you...and such girls are hard to find, either because they don't exist OR because they deliberately try to make themselves invisible. Such girls are extremely picky.

Although you may be their perfect type, it's hard to recognize you because you aren't putting yourself out either! You too are just another bee in the swarm.

The best approach you could take is overhaul your being. Become a total cheeseball with a constant smile on his face. Have you observed Businessmen and Lawyers? They put on a pleasing face so that no one can guess what they are thinking. It's necessary to bag new clients. Such, should be your behavior too. Even if you don't want to lie, you should learn to present important facts and omit questionable ones. It all comes with better sense of judgment, which comes with better maturity and experience on your part. If you do all this, girls will come to you. THEN, you can choose whomever you want.