I keep getting bad grades in math because I don't get the distributive property. I know it's supposed to be a(b + c) = ab + ac but when I try to apply it it doesn't work. I tried expanding 4a + 8b into 2(4b+a) and 5a + 10b into 2(5a+b) but they were both wrong.
I did it like that because for 9m+3n, the correct answer was 3(3m+n). So for 4a + 8b, 2*4 = 8 so I thought 2(4b+a) would work because it would give me 8b+2a... even though that's not right.. I just don't know.
I've read dozens of explanations, but when the problem doesn't look like the example, I get lost. Can you please explain the basic rule of what to do in the simplest language possible?

