Husband needs lot of sex!!?

[muata2]

Ever since we had our first baby he has become very demanding He wants sex and wants to stay with me a lot. I usually do when my baby is asleep or even when shes awake (shes 3 months old), i sit with him but he is not satisfied.
Our relationship was great but now i feel, its getting a little strained.
Actually my husband has always been all over me ever since we got together and it increased after we got married, over the top kind of person, is used to making a lot of seductive advances at me, staring at me, kissing me a lot and very active sex life.
He used to baby me, like showered with me, rocked me to sleep, he still does that, but if i am not there with him, he gets agitated.
He loves our baby very much, but wants me with him as well. I am trying my best to spend enough time with him my stepdaughter and our baby, but he mostly wants "us" time.
Since i am back in shape,I had sex with twice with him and to make him happy i kiss him as many times he wants, but feel tired and worn out. I have to look after my 6 year old as well. She has school and needs play time as well.
I have to deal nicely with him as our relationship is his first sincere relationship,he was a womanizer, previously in an open marriage so free to sleep around and we also have his 6 year old daughter. In his previous marriage, he didn't care about his wife, just his daughter, but now its mainly me then our kids
Now he wants a week vacation only with me, but how do i leave my 3 month old and 6 year old stepchild and go on a vacation???
I dont have any family on my own, nor i trust babysitters, so the only option are my parents in law.
What should i do?
I love him very much.
We are 11 years apart in age i m 23 hes 34
how do i cope???

[blaisdell]

if you dont want to have sex with him all the time you dont have to. just tell him you dont feel up to it and if he has a problem with that then he's in the wrong. he should understand things like this, especially at his age. you should never leave a 3 month old alone for that long. honestly, i dont agree with living your children alone for any vacation. a vacation is family time and those kids are part of your family. he needs a serious reality check. maybe you should sit down with a counsler and talk this out if doing it one on one isnt enough. but either way he needs to get it through his head. theres more to marriage than sex, especially when there are children involved. he should already know this.