I am getting married in this december and my father in law always blames my family is not good and all?

[han]

mine is an arrange marriage .. getting married in this december , my guy sometimes supports his family , sometimes their , our is an orthodox family , very much scared how would i adjust with them and family ? help me out

[madison86]

I completely understand why you are scared. All I can tell you is do what you want to do. If you love him and want to get involved with his family then do so. If you won't be happy with him and his family then don't do it. Only you know what will make you happy in life. Don't be afraid to do what you think is right. Good luck!

[crom]

It seems to me that there is some tension here, and from wat i know, orthodox's dont believe in divorce, right? So, if u r feeling uncomfortable right now, knowing thet neither ur future husband nor his family are treating u very well, then it is best to cancel the wedding.

OR

If u love him and he loves u, then u could sit down together wiith his father in law and tell him that wat he is doin g is wrong, that is too flawful for blaming ur family for everything.