I have a big issue with CPS (need help or experiences)?

[fiacre68]

Okay so my wife has a mental health disorder, i myself have one as well but my mine is light ocd and mild depression i'm getting treated by the VA and cps and does not have a problem with me and sometimes act like they are my best friends although they won't me to go to a parenting class because i'm 25 whatever i won't refuse education and i'm looking forward to the classes although i'm on my second child it never hurts to know more. Enough about me and on with the situation, my wife has epilepsy and bi-polar disorder, cps got involved when a medication switch went wrong and my wife went ape **** through out our neighbor hood and the whole situation was understandable that cps did get involved until medications where under control. That happened we got the kids back for a week, she cheated on me and i got mad so i told my wife i want a divorce she ran out crying. (things are good now after counseling). Anyway cps said due to her doing that she is too unstable for children, they wanted her on more meds, so now everything is upped despite her psychotherapist disagreeing with the increase. its been 3 months and cps has no direction other than me take parenting classes, our house is clean i have gotten complements from cps about my house being one o the cleanest places they have seen, i have also gotten complemented on my parenting skills and my time management skills. cps will not give us a date or even a action plan they recently added that we can only see our children 1 a week unless i divorce my wife and yes they told me several times that "I should just leave her sorry ***". I did quote that correctly. One thing that bugs me is they know that i am atheist and they will only allow and acknowledge me going to a particular parenting class which is religious (the forms for the class want to know your relationship with god. Anyway has anyone at least experience this issue and if so how did it work out?

[choviohoya]

You know I may not be able to relate to your situation, but there is one thing I wanna tell you. When you first married your wife, You chose her out of a million women. You chose to have sex with her, hold her caress her and love her till death do us part! I believe in god and prayers, but that doesn't mean there is no hope for you. Although I may not have kids, I do have a very beautiful fiance. I've been with her for a very long time. I swear if she became mentally ill or some sort of something happened to her ( god forbid) I would never leave her side. Just because your wife is not stable does't mean you should leave. Stick by her side you're doing the right thing, before your beautiful kids it was just you guys right? well I don't believe in mental diseases being permanent. I hope that you and your lovely wife find peace and comfort in your lives. I hope that the best comes out of everything. Remember no matter what situation you're in. Someone is always in a worse situation. If you left your wife who would be with her to put up with her??