What kind of bad experiences have you had with your friends? and should I still feel hurt about this?

[lawly1]

Okay earlier this year I got mad at my best-friend because she was lying to me about a lot of things and saying false things about me to her boy-friend, I felt really hurt because when we faught about this she told me that she "would forgive me but not forget" when clearly she did things wrong and blamed her actions on me. And one of my other friends yelled at me in class and called me a "soft *****" and she said she didnt need to copy from me, because if she wanted to get a failing grade she would copy my paperwork. Anyways, it happened months ago but altogether and other than that I had other things happening to me with other friends and at home. Some of my other friends were like "well what did you do to them?" I was like "nothing sometimes people just have really bad days and stuff like that happens" I swear I didnt do anything. And ever since I've been very emotional its been like 5 months now. Some of my friends know I am very emotional and some even think I am suicidal. Im just really emotional because these things happened to me all at once and i am afraid its going to happen again. Anyways, should I not feel like this anymore its been 5 months? but some other things were happening it was a hard phase to go thru. What do you think?

And why have you foughten with your friends or family about?

[chadburne48]

well personally im going through some stuff right now with my ex cus he just dont want me to be happy and he decided to start a rumor about me and now the guy i was talking to wont talk to me cus hes scared of my ex saying more stuff cus he saw how much it affected me... and well from my exs point i cant see a reason for it... but in your situation i dont think you should be over it.. i mean it was alll really stupid and not worth the pain but it did cause pain now you have to deal with it and i lost 3 grand parents in one month and it was the one year to the month that i was raped.. it has been almost 2 years now and im still not over it... sometimes it just takes a long time to get over things and sometimes people just arent stable enough like you and me... i was suicidal after the rape and it only gets worse after every time something bad happens.. so i know slightly what your talking about...
and you will get over things on your own time

[westbroc90]

If you know you're very emotional and it's kind of normal for you, you should be okay. If you do feel like you're beginning to feel worse, or you do actually become suicidal, go and get help <3

A while ago, my old teacher made us all draw a person. Then we had to rip it up for every insult he threw at it (us) then we had to stick it back together. The point in that was to show us that even though people aren't still being ripped apart they still have the scars.