My boyfriend's family is coming to town (parents, brother, sister in law and two kids) and his mother told my boyfriend that she is taking our master bedroom with her husband and the kids, while his brother and sister in law will take our second bedroom and my boyfriend and i can take the living room. This arrangement is set for 9 days.
I'm not upset that his mother is taking the bedroom, but i am upset that she volunteered our second bedroom without even considering me in the mix. I'm upset that my boyfriend didn't consider how i would feel about all this and agreed to her demands without even consulting me first. I'm also upset that he doesn't understand my situation or understand how uncomfortable i am going to feel for 9 days living in the living room without privacy.
Do i have a valid reason to be upset or am i overreacting? Has anyone been in similar situations? what would you do in this situation? Should i suck it up?

