Let me make it clear.. i'm not a feminist... BUT.?

[chatima]

after being asked redundantly on GS, why women are expected to be spoiled.. I've come under one conclusion..

It's your father's fault. Let me elaborate...with a personal experience.

i have an older brother... married.. nice wife.. whatever.. i keep my distance.. but no complaints.
I'm realizing.. my mom can't stand her daughter in law. LOL.. in fact, i don't think any woman was ever good enough for my mom.. my brother seems like the golden child in front of my mother's eyes.. and she always told my brother---he needs a woman who will serve him at hand and foot..

As opposed to my dad.. he always said one thing to my bro.. if you fall in love, make sure you give your woman the world.. Be a gentleman and always do well.

LOL i dunno.. i guess it was opposite in my family.. And if i ever made a mistake my mother would tell me, "no man will ever marry you" If something happened in any of my relationships my mother would blame me.. and say it was my fault. and i have to smarten up and not be so dumb.. and if something happened in any of my bro's relationships it was always the girl's fault.

Love my mom, but she can drive me up the wall.

[aviya]

Indian mothers. Always the "misogynists". LOL.

PS: Jokes aside, the reason why mothers (most mothers regardless of race) and fathers are critical of their same sex offspring is because they (the parents) see them (the children) as "extensions" of themselves and have high expectations for them (the daughter in the case of the mother and son in the case of the father). Also because both are the same gender, there is also this "I know the way you think because I'm also the same gender as you". Thus, the parent is more critical of the same gendered child. The child with the opposite gender reminds them of their significant other, so the they are generally nicer and more forgiving to the child. Get your dad on your side. LOL.

[osbourne]

Women are free to be as spoiled as they want ot as far as I'm concerned; taking into account their homosexual cognitive bias (they consider the female body better looking/more aesthetically pleasant/etc) it hardly makes them any more disgusting than they already are.

[yehudi]

I did not find out what is your question was.

[calvert]

So....what was the question?

No one cares about your views.

[gideon]

I'm missing the question too... Congrats on not being a feminist I guess.

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