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[pete]

So I got with my sister in law's sister, and my sister in law and her family does not approve because they do not think I am good enough for their daughter. I have a son with my ex and my ex got crazy. My ex used to be so cool when we first started dating, but once we had our son she changed and just exp ected too much from me. We were together for 5 years, and 3 months ago I decided to end things with her for good. We would always fight, and she is very manipulative, especially when it comes to our son. I got her pregnant 3 other times, but they were all miscarriages. That’s why I felt I had to stay with her, and because we have a son together and I wanted it to work but it just couldn’t. We were on and off during those years, but I decided to end things for good once I started dating my sister in law’s sister who I am in love with. My ex still bombards me with calls me and texts and tells me that I betrayed her and our son, but what can I do if I fell in love with someone else? My ex told me that she can’t believe I got with someone who she knows and that it is too fast. I mean, I already broke up with my ex so it's not cheating! My sister in law told me that I have too much drama in my life and that she wanted my life to be fixed first before starting a relationship, especially since I started a relationship with her sister. I don’t really know what she means by that. Her sister now lives with me because she moved out of her house to be with me because her family does not approve of us being together. My ex and new girlfriend are 2 different people. They should not even be worried that their daughter will turn out like my ex. It was my ex's choice to be the way she is. It's not my fault she expected a lot.

[osbourne]

Picture urself in the shoes of your sister in law's family. I would feel the same if I was in their shoes because I am very overprotective when it comes to family. I would not want my sister to be with someone who has not fixed their life yet. What I think your sister in law meant by that is she wants you to fix things with your son and ex before starting a new relationship. Remember your priorities. It should be your son first before yourself. It's ok to love someone, but do it the right way. The girl moved because of you, and you left your family for another girl! If you were genuine and sincere you would tell your new girlfriend to move back and make things right with her family. And you will also try to fix things with your ex and not call her crazy- she is the mother of your son for crying out loud. She probably expected a lot because she wants you to be a good father to your son, and that's something you're not doing. And to have 3 other misscarriages will affect a woman, no doubt! So you shouldn’t be calling her crazy.