Newlywed couple of 1 year 3 months?

[taillefer]

I just want to clear something up, me and my husband are now married for almost 1 year and 3 months and although it was very very very difficult in the beginning due to mother in law trying to split us up and offering me £1000 as a bribe to jack in the wedding and leave her son even though I never did take the money and go, I used it for the honeymoon instead hehe.. now that was amazing if you know what I mean haha ;) The thing is my husband doesn't know that she bribed me to jack in the wedding and just the other day I heard him talking to his mum and kept defending me as I overheard him. I'm not proud of what I've done in the past as I gave my sister custody of my son as I couldn't cope being a single mother at my age, we are both early twenties but her mum kept saying stuff like 'why didn't she tell you her evil sister forced her to give up her son in return for a few quid so that she could go on holiday to ayia napa' but he said 'I don't know, maybe she felt powerless or ashamed your so quick to judge people without putting yourself in their shoes' and then his mum kept saying 'you need to open your eyes' and my hubby replied 'yeah and you need to think again mum because nothing you say or do is going to stop me from loving that girl and you should know this as well, when it comes down to it the choice between you and her she wins every time' and it made me feel good about myself like he always compliments me none of the other guys I have been with in the past ever stayed done anything like that. Another time I was looking through a hairstyle magazine and said out loud 'I'm wondering whether I should get a new look' and then he replied ' you can't improve on perfection babe' I told him 'how did you get so amazing' he replied 'I married you'. And also the other week he found out that she bribed me to do a runner which he got furious with saying 'he loves me and why she can't understand that and that nothing she says or does will matter' I feel like i'm so lucky to have him and everything he's done for me like helping me with my son as he was in social services but he made me believe that I didn't have to do it on my own and that he would never ever leave me which meant a lot to me and now we are together all a family. I don't ask him to do stuff like that but he does anyway even though its not biologically his own son which I find amazing as well and also likes to defend my honour in front of people he is very chivalrous as well but i'm wondering if he finds out some other stuff about my past he might not look at me in the same way? sorry its a bit long!

[adin55]

Whew! Some punctuation might help the readability of your post.

As it is, what is your question? You seem to be ranting along about your MIL - but nothing else.

OK so there was a sort of question at the end - if your husband found out about some more of your past would he not love you any more?

Well, considering how scheming your MIL is, you had better tell him about the things you are not proud of - before MIL does.

You sound like you have a real prince of a husband - so if you tell him the truth carefully and gently, he will probably still look at you as his princess. However, if someone else tells him, he might be pretty upset.