PLEASE DEAR PEOPLE, PLS CONSIDER READING MY TENSION!?

[baigh]

I am married to very nice man.he is patient and wise.Im sincere and spontaneous.He has diplomacy, while i lack it.
We married and living with in laws.
ALready i and in laws are having issues, due to possesiveness, complex, ego, etc.

Once I and my husband fought. I was really angry.He too was.

He said to his parents, while i went to our neighbour family instead of standing in hot sun.The nieghbour family is our family enemy now due to the suspicion over theft in our home frequently.We got proof also.
But we got proof only after long time, of this fight between me and my husband.

Coming back to the fight....I was really upset and felt my life has no support. Felt sad when mother in law was telling his son is fed up of me.his son is so upset every morning etc etc.

When the issue went in hands of my in laws.... they , instead of reconciliating our fight.....moved such a way, that, they want me and Anup to divorce. I saw and heard it myself befor eme...the father in law ringing my father and telling that i would be sent to my home soon. Mother in law was telling my husband to tell my father that he wants to send me back, himself.

God played on my life.We compromised after all these efforts. But it was an eye opener. The aim of the people around was shocking to me.

But we are still in the same house..with grumblings and tensions...

Could you tell the opinion of how i should deal with them.

note: My husband is a nice man and very good friend of mine.
All pairs fight.But it is not gonna be the end ,right!

How i should deal with in laws?Please help me advicing

[marq]

To be honest with you, I personally don't understand why they're mad at you. What did you do wrong? Maybe you should talk to them, tell them how you feel about all of it. They sound like they're blowing thing out of porportion for no apparent reason (as from knowing what I read.) The best thing is to talk things out with them, see why they're mad at you so much. Maybe in the end things will work out.

[emek]

lol, english isn't your first language is it?

You need to talk to your husband. Not him talking to his parents, or you talking to your neighbours. The two of you need to sit down (alone) and talk it out.
You need to find out why he isn't happy. And you need to work through all your issues together.

Are your in laws the problem?
Then maybe it's time to move out. And have the in-laws not be so involved in you and your husbands life.

[gerard]

Hi, First thing which you have to do is when he is angry you be cool and listen. Both should never get angry at a time that is more important. When he get cool down then you tell about your view. Make him to realize that how much you respect and love him.

If your relationship is strong then no one will interfere in your matter. With your in laws also don't go to argue be cool and answer. If you want your family back then have patience and face it. You told your husband is your good friend no, then express your love and care in different way. Again I am telling please DON'T GO TO ARGUE, IT WILL NEVER GIVE YOU SOLUTION.

God Bless you

[ludano17]

simply try to leave separate from ur in lawss. thats only possible way and solution for ur happy life.