Plz need pro help mother of my child got shot in neck with 22 caliber n bullet stuck in her spinal core ?

[vaiveatoish]

She was in ICU where put her in ventilator After transferred her to rehabilition after like a week of rehab witch she has told therapist no every time they come .. She wants to give up And wants doctor to take her off vent where she hasn't even got result to see if complete or incomplete spinal cord injury ???? Is only been like 20 days when lower vent to 10 breaths n have it on 420total she has a panic attck and says can't breath so doesn't let doctors test waters she wants to give up is there any chances that. She lives if she gets off ????? Some one plZ help

[lundie]

Sorry for you and all concerned here.....No menton of you being married to this woman ??? Playing house rules are NOT viewed the same as MARRIED COUPLES and now there is a child involved. See the distinct differences ??? ...Too early to indicate whether or not regarding the ventilation. If you are NOT the husband, then the orders from you carry LITTLE OR NO WEIGHT IN THE EYES OF THE PEOPLE/MEDICAL MAKING DECISIONS FOR HER. The DECISIONS AT THIS POINT ARE IN HER FAVOUR UNLESS SHE IS NOT OF SOUND MIND...What about her family ?? Her mother, HER BLOOD RELATIVES?? That is the only thing that will save her from NOT pulling the plug. GET SOME INTERVENTION GOING !!! Is she on sedatives ??? Start calling her family NOW Even if they are not in the same VICINITY/CITY...All can be done through emails/phones and if need be a LAWYER to substantitiate that she is indeed the mother or father of their daughter....NO PARENTS ??? THEN MARRY HER IN THE HOSPITAL...Husband's MARRIED STATUS CARRIES WEIGHT. My personal best!! PS ALSO phone/contact the hospital minister to help you through this also the hospsital social worker....Things to think about !!