Someone help a.s.a.p !!?

[lintun]

okiie i have 2 kids with my 1st hubby but am not with him no more am with someone new we have been togther for almost 1 year my son left to mexico with my ex mother in law and i didnt do drop him of cuz he didnt want me to go cuz i was going with my 1st hubbt family so i didnt take him to the airport so his father went with him and know that his comeing back i want to go pick him but but its the same sorrie again he dont want me to go and if i go i know he would brake up with me or something what should i do ? someone help please

my new boyfriend brother is going out with my ex sister in law so my sister in law is his sister in law as well?

[bean]

This is your child you are talking about, and you are experiencing one of the problems of "blended" families. Your child is your first obligation. Please don't let your new boyfriend damage your relationship with your child. Explain patiently and kindly to him that you MUST do this, and that it is no way a negative reflection on him or your relationship with him. Then go. If he gets mad, he may have control issues, in which case you don't need him. Our children are dependent on us and you must consider that your primary obligation.